There was a certain young woman who was nervous about meeting her boyfriend's parents for the first time. As she checked out her appearance one last time, she noticed that her shoes looked dingy. So she gave them a fast swipe with the paper towel she had used to blot the bacon she had for breakfast.
Arriving at the impressive home of her potential in-laws, she was greeted by the parents and their much-beloved, but rotten-tempered, poodle, Cleo.
Well, the dog got a whiff of the bacon grease on the young woman's shoes and followed her around all evening. Wouldn't leave her alone. At the end of the evening, the pleased parents remarked, "Cleo really likes you, dear, and she is an excellent judge of character. We're absolutely delighted to welcome you into our little family." (1)
Cleo may very well have been a great judge of character but that night, I'm afraid it was the bacon grease that won out. According to our passage of Scripture, the Pharisees didn't think Jesus was a very good judge of character.
Let's see why as we read Luke 7:36-8:3.
[36] One of the Pharisees asked Jesus to eat with him, and he went into the Pharisee's house and took his place at the table.
[37] And a woman in the city, who was a sinner, having learned that he was eating in the Pharisee's house, brought an alabaster jar of ointment.
[38] She stood behind him at his feet, weeping, and began to bathe his feet with her tears and to dry them with her hair. Then she continued kissing his feet and anointing them with the ointment.
[39] Now when the Pharisee who had invited him saw it, he said to himself, "If this man were a prophet, he would have known who and what kind of woman this is who is touching him that she is a sinner."
[40] Jesus spoke up and said to him, "Simon, I have something to say to you." "Teacher," he replied, "Speak."
[41] "A certain creditor had two debtors; one owed five hundred denarii, and the other fifty.
[42] When they could not pay, he canceled the debts for both of them. Now which of them will love him more?"
[43] Simon answered, "I suppose the one for whom he canceled the greater debt." And Jesus said to him, "You have judged rightly."
[44] Then turning toward the woman, he said to Simon, "Do you see this woman? I entered your house; you gave me no water for my feet, but she has bathed my feet with her tears and dried them with her hair.
[45] You gave me no kiss, but from the time I came in she has not stopped kissing my feet.
[46] You did not anoint my head with oil, but she has anointed my feet with ointment.
[47] Therefore, I tell you, her sins, which were many, have been forgiven; hence she has shown great love. But the one to whom little is forgiven, loves little."
[48] Then he said to her, "Your sins are forgiven."
[49] But those who were at the table with him began to say among themselves, "Who is this who even forgives sins?"
[50] And he said to the woman, "Your faith has saved you; go in peace."
Damaged Goods. That's what the Pharisees saw, "Damaged Goods." And nobody wants damaged goods. Just go to the grocery store. How many people pass up dented cans and open packages? For the budget minded, in some stores you can actually go to a shopping cart filled with dented cans or cans without labels and buy them for about 10 cents apiece. But most people don't. And a lot of stores have quit bothering to put the dented cans out. They just send them back. Why? "Damaged Goods."
Just like the woman in today's Scripture. She was Damaged Goods.
Do you remember the musical, "The Music Man?" Professor Harold Hill came to a small town in the Midwest to sell musical instruments. He gets the town's attention by pointing out the trouble a pool hall could cause, "Ya got trouble in River City, Trouble with a capital T that rhymes with P that stands for pool." Well, today "We got Trouble in River City. Trouble with a capital T and that rhymes with P and that stands for Pharisee."
Yep, Simon the Pharisee had invited Jesus to dinner and in the midst of that dinner was confronted with Tears, Perfume and Forgiveness.
I. Tears
A. Simon and those gathered with Jesus were first confronted with this woman's TEARS. I'm sure some of them were simply tears of shame and frustration. You see, this woman's life was like the two drunks who went down one night to the dock where their boat was tied up. They had rowed over and decided to row back across the lake to their home. They got in and started rowing. They rowed hard for hours, wondering all the time why they never reached the other side of the lake. When dawn finally broke, they found out why. They'd forgotten to untie the boat from the dock. They had rowed all night long and gotten nowhere.
That's the way this woman's life had turned out. She was getting nowhere because she was "Damaged Goods." She was probably a prostitute.
We know that because a decent woman never let her hair down in public. Kind of like a decent woman in the 1880's and 90's never showed an ankle. Never. The decent woman would only let down her hair in the privacy of the bedroom, in the company of her husband.
But of course this wasn't a decent woman. She was a sinner with a bad reputation. And it was totally scandalous for this unclean woman to enter the house of a righteous Pharisee named Simon. It was even more scandalous that she knelt by the feet of the guest of honor and wet his feet with her tears.
It was scandalous that she poured her perfume over the feet of Jesus. And it was scandalous that she dried his feet with her hair.
Everyone was offended; everyone that is, except Jesus. You see, everyone else saw "Damaged Goods." Jesus saw the TEARS and beyond.
Everyone else, saw unrighteousness. Jesus saw a sin sick soul that needed to be cleansed.
Everyone else saw a prostitute, Jesus saw a lost daughter of God needing to find her way home.
B. How did she get there? We don't know. I don't think she consciously woke up one morning and said to herself, "OK, this is the day I choose to be an outcast. From now on, I'm going to do nothing but sin." That's not the way it happens is it?
No, I think all it took was one mistake. It always starts out with one act. Sometimes, it's not even intentional. You don't even realize what you're doing. Something grabs hold, then boom you're in the middle of it and you look back and you don't know how you went around that corner or where that thought came from? You look back with regret but the choice was made and now there doesn't seem anywhere else to turn except down.
You're tagged with that one bit of bad behavior. You messed up once, so that means you're going to do it again. And if you do it again, it only confirms what everyone thought to begin with. And it becomes an ongoing spiral downward. Pretty soon you just start living down to everyone else's expectations.
And then one day, someone tells you that you're wrong and the label is wrong. They tell you they believe in you. It's almost too good to be true. Someone, like Jesus, tells you they understand. He tells you He cares, unconditionally, no matter what it was you did.
No wonder this woman wanted to show her love and respect for Jesus. She came offering the only things she had left to give: her TEARS, her PERFUME and HERSELF. And so she offered them. Tears of love and tears of regret fell freely onto the feet of the one who could set her free.
II. Perfume
A. And that bring us to the PERFUME. You see, she may have given the only things she had left to give: her TEARS, her PERFUME and HERSELF. But what she gave was her very best.
Have you ever given someone something you thought was a great gift only to have them accept it but not with the enthusiasm you expected?
I'll never forget the year I did my internship at First UMC, Dimmitt. We went from both of us being employed to living on a stipend set by the Seminary. Don't get me wrong, the church took care of us. But things were really tight. So, there wasn't much in the way of extra money to spend on Christmas presents for our families that year.
We decided to make all of our Christmas gifts. Mary worked hard on needlepoint and crochet projects for our moms and sisters. We got stuff for the kids and made handmade stuff for our brothers. The only one who really appreciated what I made for him was my Dad. And I had made him homemade peanut brittle and put it in a painted tin that said something to the effect of: "Dad's Do Not Touch"
We were really proud of the gifts we made because we had really thought about what to make and give. We tried to think of something special for each of them. Unfortunately everybody but Dad kind of received the gifts with a yawn. My brother even said something like, "You mean you didn't buy me anything?"
That's the attitude the woman heard from those gathered with Jesus at Simon's table. It wasn't a very sweet smelling reception. It smelled of judgment and condemnation.
B. The woman, though, ignored their comments and their stares. So enthralled with who Jesus was, so moved by His love for her and others like her, the downtrodden and fallen, she poured out her soul and bathed Jesus' feet with expensive perfume. The beautiful smell of her gift filled the room.
But there was a smell more beautiful, that made her perfume smell like nothing. And that was the sweet scent of grace. Not judgment.
The Pharisee sat in judgment. Yes, he smelled the perfume but the sour smell of his judgment over powered the air around him. You see, all he saw was the woman's sin, not her need, not her potential, not her worth, just her sin. It was as if she had on a hideous costume the covered her from head to foot. Or he had on a pair of glasses which distorted his entire view.
But not Jesus. Jesus recognized the presence and action of this woman as profound gratitude and pure love sparked by the saving grace of His ministry. And so He spoke to Simon and then to the woman. Simon: "Her great love shows that her many sins have been forgiven." And to her: "Your faith has saved you. Go in peace."
III. Forgiveness
A. The PERFUME of God's Grace flooded the room with its heavenly scent. The PERFUME of God's Grace was poured out upon that woman as FORGIVENESS.
Not only was the FORGIVENESS poured out upon her, but in that outpouring, her brokenness was healed. The Damaged Goods vessel that she had been was redeemed and made whole by the unconditional love and grace of God in Christ.
B. I read a story recently about a Pastor who visited a lady who had made contact with his church through a "Mother's Day Out" ministry. He had visited with her only a few minutes when her husband came home from work. As he walked into the room, she said, "Honey, this is the pastor from such and such Church. He came to talk to you about God." Then she left!
After a few awkward moments, it was as if a dam broke and all of the desires, needs, and hurts of his soul came gushing out. For over an hour, this man talked about his needs, emptiness, hunger, and fears. When he had talked himself out, the Pastor shared with how Christ could meet everyone of those needs. That afternoon, the man knelt in his living room and gave his life to Jesus Christ. Later, just as the Pastor was leaving the man's house, he said, "Preacher, I have been waiting five years for someone to help me get straightened out with God. Thank you. Thank you." (2)
That Pastor, brought the PERFUME of God's Grace with Him and poured it out liberally, just as Jesus did for this woman at the house of Simon the Pharisee.
Forgiveness means we are given the freedom to make a new start. Forgiveness wipes the slate clean. It's like having a word processor document open with a list of all the things you've ever done wrong and then having someone reach over and hit the delete key. All that's left is that blank page with nothing to clutter it.
A blank page upon which you can write the rest of your life the way God wanted it written in the first place.
That second chance, that new start is why Jesus died on the cross. Jesus poured out His life for you and for me. He poured out his life so we could experience and smell the sweet scent of Grace. Breathe deep and know your sins are forgiven.
Conclusion
The Good News is that you don't have to smear bacon grease on your shoes to be accepted. The TEARS, PERFUME AND FORGIVENESS remind us that we are called to come to Jesus like this woman. We're called to come seeking forgiveness, renewal and redemption. We're called to give to Jesus our very best. We're called to give Jesus all that we have.
And, like Jesus, we are called, not to sit in judgment like Simon, but to welcome everyone who is seeking that very same redemption.
1. Dynamic Preaching, (Seven Worlds Publishing, Knoxville, TN), June 2004
2. Dynamic Preaching, (Seven Worlds Publishing, Knoxville, TN), June 2004
3. Homiletics