“In My Father’s house are many rooms. If it were not so, would I have told you that I am going there to prepare a place for you? And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and welcome you into My presence, so that you also may be where I am.” John 14:2-3
“But the Advocate, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in My name, will teach you all things and will remind you of everything I have told you.” John 14:26
“Instead, your hearts are filled with sorrow because I have told you these things. But I tell you the truth, it is for your benefit that I am going away. Unless I go away, the Advocate will not come to you; but if I go, I will send Him to you. And when He comes, He will convict the world in regard to sin and righteousness and judgment:…” John 16:7
Spring is a time for wedding preparations. Soon, we’ll see brides in white gracing gardens and lawns, trailed by colorful bridesmaids and groomsmen, and proud grooms in sharp suits. We’ll see flower arrangements, and party planning, churches donned with lace and ribbons, lawns strewn with white rice and birdseed.
Weddings are those times when we celebrate relationships, commitment, and the culmination of a time of waiting. In our western world, the “engagement” is when a gift of commitment is typically given, followed by a lengthy planning period of one year or more while the celebration is planned, scheduled, and attire is chosen.
In Jesus’ time and before that in biblical history, the engagement was called a betrothal, a very joyful time in itself when those to be married were officially committed. To be betrothed in Jewish culture was essentially to be married in ours. It was already a binding commitment, not easily broken. The marriage itself was just a fulfillment or consummation of what had already been promised and professed.
At the betrothal ceremony in the village of the bride, a covenant kind of meal would be shared, including a cup of blessing, which would consecrate the two. But then, the groom would need to depart from her in order to prepare a place, a home, or a room for them to live. Usually, this would be a room that would be attached to the ancestral family’s home, the home most likely of the groom’s parents. In some cases, he might build them a home of their own. This might take one or two years.
In the meantime, the woman, assisted often by someone assigned to the task by the groom’s household, would prepare for marriage. She would be taught how to run a household, how to behave as a wife, how to be an honored member of the Jewish community, what her role would be in the community and that relationship, and her dress would be prepared. She would purify herself and prepare herself for the groom’s return.
Her ladies in waiting would look out for him (with lamps lit) and announce when he would be coming. When he did, to the sound of the shofar, his procession would approach, and he would bring his bride with him to her new home. There, the marriage would be consummated, and a grand 7-day feast would commence!
The entire affair would be one of celebration and great joy! Singing, dancing, feasting, loving. This is the kind of promise fulfilled that Jesus offers to us in the time to come!
The covenant of scripture that God makes with humankind is not a covenant of legalities and duty, although it is a binding and committed agreement. But it is closest to the Jewish marriage covenant –a covenant of love, and celebration, and fulfillment, and oneness. It is a covenant of joy!
This week, we read of Jesus’ ascension. Jesus’ disciples, no doubt, are wondering why, when he just returned, does he need to leave again! Jesus tells them, it is good for Him to go. He is going to prepare a place for them. His father’s house has many rooms, He tells them. You can’t come right now, He says. But soon. Soon I will come back for you. In the meantime, He will send an assistant, the Holy Spirit, who will prepare them, teach them, make them ready for His return.
And when He returns, He describes it as a grand feast! The wedding feast of the King, Jesus describes in His parable of the great feast. That feast again will be echoed in Revelation in the Wedding Feast of the Lamb.
This is the kind of covenant God imagines with us. Now, I think it was probably hard enough for Jesus’ disciples to think of themselves as proclaiming Jesus raised from the dead and ascended into heaven. But now these manly men need to think of themselves, not as the groom in this scenario –but the Bride!
But the eating and feasting part –they could certainly get into that. Everyone loves a feast!
The marriage covenant meal of bread and wine echoes the incarnation –“my body is your body, my blood is your blood.” The two becomes one! Our holy communion is much like a marriage ceremony. John Wesley called it a “means of grace.” We could also call it a means of relational communion, or a means of spiritual and incarnational one-ness. In our holy communion, we become one with Christ, and Christ with us. We enter into a kind of “marriage” relationship with Jesus. That’s the level of commitment Jesus asks of us.
It’s easy just to follow some rules or obey some laws. We can get really good at doing that! But Jesus’ gospel isn’t about achieving the goal of perfect rule following. It’s about coming into a perfecting kind of relationship, one that will improve us, sustain us, cause us to grow, cause us to live in relationship with God in a new and unique way. For this, we don’t just have to abide by a set of rules. We need to abide in Him. We need to surrender our needs and wants to a kind of marriage relationship, in which everything about our lives will in some way change.
We leave our old life behind, and we engage in something vitally and totally new. And we enter into a new place, a new home, a new way of life. It is a new beginning.
From Jesus’ ascension and the coming of the Holy Spirit at Pentecost that will empower us and teach us, purify us, and missionize us, we will become like a “bride in waiting.”
The bride that is the newly betrothed Church will spend time preparing for Jesus’ return, engaging in preparations for the joyful final union. She will spend time learning from the Holy Spirit, her advocate. She will be “dressed” by the Holy Spirit advocate in God’s clothing of righteousness and sanctioned for mission in the world. She will learn how to be disciples and live a new kind of life in the Spirit and as the bride of Jesus. And she will live in expectation of His final coming, when she will be received into glory and feast at His heavenly table.
The bride that is the Church has a very special mission as Christ’s truly beloved and betrothed. And it is her commitment to Him that engulfs her entire life.
The Church must remember who she is. She must never forget her commitment, and her mission during this time of waiting. It is for this that Jesus goes away. What kind of bride will he find when he returns? “When the Son of man comes, will He find faith on the earth?” Jesus asks (Luke 18:8). Will He find His disciples ready? Will His bride be ever faithful?
Next week is our celebration of Pentecost when we will again be clothed with the power, favor, presence, and glory of the Holy Spirit. These are our wedding garments, our betrothal garlands. When we allow the Holy Spirit to cloak us in God’s grace, we too must honor our commitment to go forward in our time of waiting with honor, joy, preparation, and a mission in the world to bring all we can to the table of the Lord.
Imagine a world where everyone can be cloaked in love and grace.
Jesus tells a parable to His disciples before the end of His earthly life about wedding clothes. No one gets in to the King’s feast without being properly clothed -- “clothed from on high.” This is the language of Pentecost. This is the language of betrothal and consummation. Only the committed will marry the King. Only a disciple will have a room in God’s heavenly mansion and a seat at the table.
To be properly dressed is to bear the fruits of the Spirit, to wear the cloak of God’s Pentecostal grace in and throughout one’s life and world, to be always in a mode of preparation and learning, mission and love.
Years ago, when one prepared to be a wife, one prepared what was called a “hope chest.” In it would go all of the things she would need to start a household in her new home. She would accumulate pots and pans, tablecloths and dishes, bedding, nightgowns, and all she could think of to make her new life with her husband. She committed to building up that chest, so that when the time came for the marriage celebration, she could open that chest, and have the tools she needs to make her new home with finesse, love, honor, and joy.
Our time in the season of the coming of the Holy Spirit will be a time of preparation. In that time, we will learn the stories of scripture, learn about Jesus and what it takes to be the kind of disciples Jesus needs us to be. We will accumulate wisdom, grow in our understanding of what it means to be united in Christ as the Church, and we will build the household of God.
And when the time comes, we will open our hearts and enter in to God’s final kingdom, clothed in His glory, and committed in Spirit, with wisdom and love, and many, many others who we taught to follow with us.
Jesus’ ascension is Jesus’ “going away” to prepare a place for us. Soon the Father will send someone to help “clothe us with righteousness” so that we can be ready for the consummation and the wedding feast of the Lamb when He returns.
The scriptures tell us what happened at Jesus’ ascension:
“I am going to send you what my Father has promised; but stay in the city until you have been clothed with power from on high,” Jesus tells His disciples.
When he had led them out to the vicinity of Bethany, he lifted up his hands and blessed them. While he was blessing them, he left them and was taken up into heaven.
Then they worshiped him and returned to Jerusalem with great joy. And they stayed continually at the temple, praising God. (Luke 24:49-53)*
When one is betrothed or engaged, the reaction is to celebrate with friends. Our reaction to Jesus’ ascension too is to celebrate with our fellow followers –in worship, in prayer, in song, in praise. This is the best gift we can give to our Holy Bridegroom –to enter into joy.
To love Jesus is to be filled with joy to be with Him, to be His disciples, to fulfill His mission in the world, until He comes for us, to take us into glory.
Let us prepare today and always –with great prayer, with great joy, with great anticipation. For Jesus has betrothed His holy Church.
And He is coming soon!
[Suggested would be to end with a song of joy or dance of joy or celebration of some sort. Or you can end with love feast that binds Jesus’ followers together as One in Him.]
*Anna the prophetess also does this as she is waiting for the messiah to come.
**The photo for this sermon is from sapphirethroneministries blog 2013.
Based on the Story Lectionary
Major Text
Luke’s Witness to Jesus’ Blessing of His Disciples and Ascension (Luke 24:45-49; 50-53)
The Story of Jesus’ Ascension (Acts 1)
Minor Text
God’s Blessing Upon Abram (Genesis 12)
The Blessing of Melchizedek, High Priest of the Most-High God Upon Abram (14)
God’s Blessing Upon Jacob and the Experience at Bethel (Genesis 28)
The Blessing and Monument at Gilgal When the Ark Came Up Out of the Jordan (Joshua 4)
Psalm 18: The Lord Lives in High Places
Psalm 24: Ascending the Mountain of God
Psalm 68: Proclaiming the Power of God
Psalm 110: A Priest in the Order of Melchizedek
Psalm 121 (A Song of Ascent): The Lord’s Blessing
Psalm 123 (A Song of Ascent): I Lift Up My Eyes
The Lord’s Servant Will Be Raised and Lifted Up (Isaiah 52)
The Mountain of the Lord (Micah 4)
Jesus the High Priest in the Eternal Order of Melchizedek (Hebrews 7)
The Living Stone of Zion (1 Peter 2)
Luke’s Witness to Jesus’ Blessing of His Disciples and Ascension
Then he opened their minds, so they could understand the Scriptures. He told them, “This is what is written: The Messiah will suffer and rise from the dead on the third day, and repentance for the forgiveness of sins will be preached in his name to all nations, beginning at Jerusalem. You are witnesses of these things.
I am going to send you what my Father has promised; but stay in the city until you have been clothed with power from on high.”
When he had led them out to the vicinity of Bethany, he lifted up his hands and blessed them. While he was blessing them, he left them and was taken up into heaven.
Then they worshiped him and returned to Jerusalem with great joy. And they stayed continually at the temple, praising God.
The Apostles Tell of Jesus’ Ascension
In my former book, Theophilus, I wrote about all that Jesus began to do and to teach until the day he was taken up to heaven, after giving instructions through the Holy Spirit to the apostles he had chosen. After his suffering, he presented himself to them and gave many convincing proofs that he was alive. He appeared to them over a period of forty days and spoke about the kingdom of God.
On one occasion, while he was eating with them, he gave them this command: “Do not leave Jerusalem, but wait for the gift my Father promised, which you have heard me speak about. For John baptized with water, but in a few days you will be baptized with the Holy Spirit.”
Then they gathered around him and asked him, “Lord, are you at this time going to restore the kingdom to Israel?”
He said to them: “It is not for you to know the times or dates the Father has set by his own authority. But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes on you; and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem, and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the ends of the earth.”
After he said this, he was taken up before their very eyes, and a cloud hid him from their sight.
They were looking intently up into the sky as he was going, when suddenly two men dressed in white stood beside them.
“Men of Galilee,” they said, “why do you stand here looking into the sky? This same Jesus, who has been taken from you into heaven, will come back in the same way you have seen him go into heaven.”
Then the apostles returned to Jerusalem from the hill called the Mount of Olives, a Sabbath day’s walk from the city. When they arrived, they went upstairs to the room where they were staying. Those present were Peter, John, James and Andrew; Philip and Thomas, Bartholomew and Matthew; James son of Alphaeus and Simon the Zealot, and Judas son of James.
They all joined together constantly in prayer, along with the women and Mary the mother of Jesus, and with his brothers.
Image Exegesis: High Priest, Bread, Wine, Water, and Melchizedek
Jesus’ ascension seems like a rather short passage in the scriptures, but it is packed with meaning and metaphor. Some are visible metaphors, such as clouds, light, third day, 40 days, baptism, water, and hill/Mt., clothing of power. Other metaphors are what I call “hidden” or “invisible” metaphors –those which have meaning within the scripture passage but don’t literally appear, metaphors in this case such as Holy Spirit/wind/breath/fire/shofar/voice, Melchizedek/High Priest, bread/wine, and Bridegroom.
All of them culminate in covenant, on one hand the “creative” power of God which illuminates the nature of the “whom” we are in relationship with, and other metaphors that are sacramental and relational, what you might say are “betrothal and wedding” metaphors.
The divine mystery, that is, the nature of covenant can be seen in metaphors such as cloud, third day, 7th day, 40 days, baptism, water, and clothing. You can see the Holy Spirit metaphors echoing the creative “spirit” of God which moved upon the waters in the water, wind, breath, fire, shofar, and voice metaphors. But the scriptures are ultimately about relationship, relationship between God (the divine mystery) and humankind (who can only understand/comprehend that mystery in part). The revelatory nature of God is understood only in the context of relationship. But that relationship, or covenant, is not the legalistic, moralistic, rule-based, kind of relationship sometimes depicted. But the covenant between God and humankind is depicted most as a “marriage.” It is a highly passionate, loving pursuit of God with God’s creation. Divine and creature. That pursuit culminates in the stories of scripture as a betrothal, and then a marriage. At some points in scripture, we see this metaphor as a sub-story (as in Hosea or Jeremiah). But we see the master story in the story fulfilled with Jesus, which mirrors the Jewish/Hebrew betrothal and wedding customs in a masterful way. When Jesus meets with His disciples in the upper room, he completes a covenant style meal with them (bread and wine), a sacramental and covenantal type of meal, significant not only in the Passover or in the tradition of Melchizedek from Genesis, but in the Jewish betrothal ritual. In fact, Jesus refers to Himself several times in scripture as the Bridegroom, and tells parables referring to the final grand Feast, the Wedding Feast of the Lamb that will reappear in John’s Revelation.
When Jesus reappears, He goes through several rituals –a commissioning, an ascension, and then sends the Holy Spirit at Pentecost. All of this leads up to a time of waiting (missional waiting, not unmoving waiting) until He comes back for them.
Jesus tells them, He is going to prepare a room for them. Similar to the Jewish groom, Jesus will go to His Father’s house, (which has many rooms), to prepare a place for His Bride (The Church…or all of His followers). He is the Son of the King. This may take some time. In the Jewish tradition, the groom may take as much as two years to return. In the meantime, the Father may send an assistant/helper/advocate to guide the Bride and her entourage in her preparations for her new life and new home. This will involve clothing in the white bridal attire (the creating of it), purification, learning new customs and how to be in relationship with her husband, how to be a member of this new community.
For the Church, this is also a time of preparation, learning, mission, disciple-making, until Jesus comes again. Then we will be joyful and feast with Him in God’s heavenly kingdom.
The High Priest Melchizedek sanctions the covenant. The beauty of Jesus is that He is all of these. He is both Lamb and Shepherd. He is also both Son of the King, and High Priest. He has no need of anyone to assist, as He and the Father are One. But the Holy Spirit is the living, breath of God, sent to help prepare the Church for glory.
The wedding covenant is time for great joy. Our union with God is not one of mere duty, but one of joy, and sharing a crown of glory, one of love, and of peaceful wedded bliss.
Advocate / making ready / betrothal / time of waiting –these are all metaphors we need to pay attention to in the context of all of these scriptures. The ascension, though a short passage of scripture, is a key part of the ongoing story of Jesus resurrection and later coming. When the Bridegroom comes, all will celebrate! This will happen at the sound of shofar. The procession of the groom will come to receive His bride and take “her” to His new home that He has prepared for her.
Jesus’ covenant story is the fulfillment of all other covenant stories in scripture.
In the story of Abram and Melchizedek in Genesis. This King of Salem (not on either side of the kings who have faced off in the valley of Kings), brings out wine and bread for Abram. He is depicted as the High Priest of God Most High. He is referred to sometimes as the “Logos” of God. Other early Jewish traditions think of him as Shem, son of Noah and carrier of the righteous covenant line. Whether he is supposed to be king of a neighboring place or King of an ancient Jerusalem (salem means peace …shalom….in aramaic), his role is most important as “sealer” and confirmer of covenant. In this he is a sacramental figure and one shrouded in mystery (divine mystery).*
The designation of Melchizedek will later be attributed to Jesus by the writer of Hebrews: “….and was designated by God as high priest in the order of Melchizedek.” (Heb 5:10). “This Melchizedek was king of Salem and priest of the God Most High.” (Heb 7:1). “His tabernacle is in Salem; His dwelling place also is in Zion.” (Psalm 76:2). “The Lord has sworn and will not change His mind: ‘You are a priest forever in the order of Melchizedek.’” (Psalm 110:4).**
The idea that this High Priest brings a covenant of peace reveals the nature of the “marriage,” one of peace and joy, as also depicted in the Song of Songs. Jesus’ covenant is a covenant of peace, truth, and love. Jesus as High Priest is intercessor as well as Bridegroom: “We have this as a sure and steadfast anchor of the soul, a hope that enters into the inner shrine behind the curtain, where Jesus has gone as forerunner on our behalf, having become a high prieszt forever after in the order of Melchizedek.” (Heb 6:19-20)
While the Greek “parakletos” is usually interpreted as a legalistic advocate, I would argue that the Holy Spirit instead is more of the kind of “advocate” teacher and guide” designated by the Father of the Groom, sent to help prepare the Bride (The Church) for her new life in the Spirit. Because Jesus is typically also depicted as Jacob’s Ladder, literally the interceder, this makes sense in the order of “metaphors.”
The covenant “seal,” the betrothal meal remains one that will bind us everlastingly in our waiting for His coming.***
The “waiting” however is not static, but missional. “I will pour out my Spirit on all flesh…” (Joel 2:28). We are in waiting for His final coming, but our preparation and mission includes gathering all together, so that all may enter into the Feast of the Lord.
*Some refer to Salem as a town called Salim in the tribe of Ephraim. Others say it is ancient Jerusalem, and quote Psalm 76:2. Most refer to Melchizedek as the king of peace and of the universal divine priesthood, ordained by God from the beginning of time. While the covenant meal may have been used to refresh those who had fought, still the metaphorical idea of refreshment for the weary, nourishment of the soul, remembrance of that time is later repeated both in Jesus’ last meal, and in the explanation in Hebrews: “You are a priest forever in the order of Melchizedek.” (Heb 5:6)
**Joseph Fitzmyer (2004) identifies Jerusalem as a later tradition in The Genesis Apocryphon of Qumran Cave 1 Commentary (p. 245). However, the Jewish Encyclopedia in an article by Isadore Singer and Kaufmann Kohler says that Melchizedek rests upon an ancient Jerusalemic tradition, quoting Josephus. In ancient texts “Adonizedek” is named instead of Melchizedek. While Philo identified the High Priest as the “logos” of God, the Samaritans identified Salem as a place near their own worship center at Mt. Gerizim. Later rabbis would identify Melchizedek with Shem. (See the blessing of Shem in Genesis 9:26). A midrash actually suggests that Tamar was a daughter of Melchizedesk, which would make more sense of the story of Judah and Tamar. For more on the covenant meal, see also David Elganish “The Encounter of Abram and Melchizedek” in Studies in Book of Genesis. Ed. Andre Wenin. See also Midrash Rabbah, 1983, p. 796.
***See the Jewish Encyclopedia on covenant seals (salt, bread, wine) as witness. Covenant (according to Warren Wiersbe) also indicated “to eat with” –a sharing as in the marriage feast. See also steps to Jewish Wedding “Covenants” by Susan Anthony.