I wept and wept because no one was found who was worthy to open the scroll or look inside. Then one of the elders said to me, “Do not weep! See, the Lion of the tribe of Judah, the Root of David, has triumphed. He is able to open the scroll and its seven seals.” (Revelation 5:4-5)
Prop: crystal teardrops
Tears.
Frustration. Grief. Sadness.
It’s the name of the milieu pervading the atmosphere of many churches today. Dwindling attendance. Lack of enthusiasm. Fear of the surrounding culture, not to mention the world in general which is increasingly populated with the “nones and dones” (as the non-church and de-churched are now called). Increasing apathy toward Jesus, mission, evangelism, and discipleship among those in church and in the world.
Meanwhile, the world is becoming more agnostic, more agonistic, more chaotic. Or so it seems. And the response of many of God’s supposed faithful?
“It’s happening somewhere else.”
“We can’t get involved.”
“We don’t have time.” “We have soccer.”
“We have our own problems.”
“We sleep in.”
“We go out.”
“It’s our only day off.”
“It’s someone else’s country.”
“I don’t do church.”
“I don’t like Christians.”
“I don’t believe in God.”
“I’ll handle it my own way.”
“I can’t hear you.”
Every pastor knows the feeling of hitting the brick wall when trying to reach someone who needs help and doesn’t want it. So do those who give their best of time and treasures and talent to the church and nothing changes. They know. You know.
God knows too.
We look back at the “saints” who have come before us with nostalgia, thinking they must have had the answers we can’t find. We sometimes feel that if only we could go back in time, things would be better. If only we could get back to the apostolic age, that golden age of the church when the saints got everything right.
Right? Have you read 1 Corinthians? Or Paul’s second attempt at correcting the course of this church called 2 Corinthians. There has never been a golden age of purity and perfection when the church got everything right. Every generation has its challenges, and the decline of the church hasn’t happened only in the last few years. Even in Paul’s time, churches had trouble.
But you look at YOUR church, your people, your community, your world, and you say…
What went wrong? What are WE doing wrong?
Although sometimes the answer may be that we haven’t tried, there are times when the answer is simply, “nothing.”
Sometimes, you just can’t move a boulder no matter how hard you try. Sometimes it’s not for you to move.
Sometimes, there are things (and people) you just need to leave to time, prayer, and God. No matter how much it hurts.
Even God expresses frustration and sorrow. Look at the scriptures. The Hebrew scriptures are filled with God’s frustration at a people who do not move, who refused to budge.
Can God make them move? Undoubtedly. Will God make them? No. But God will try from Genesis to Revelation, from scriptural times to present times, to nudge, urge, love every person toward returning to the heavenly fold –for protection, safety, joy, peace. And God will keep trying until God brings every lost sheep home.
Even God mourns when humans go their own way and refuse to acknowledge their heavenly parent.
And God’s shepherds mourn when they love God’s people as God does.
The scriptures are filled with “mourning songs.” Laments. Many of the psalms are laments. The prophets lament. There is one whole book of the Bible called “Lamentations” that is one great big lament.
Jesus too took time to lament what he could not accomplish in this world, but needed to leave to the next. When God’s beloved people would not listen, nor change ways that Jesus knew would only lead to dire consequences, Jesus laments.
Lament, grief, sorrow, mourning for what has been lost and cannot be found or saved is a very human thing to do.
Often, we seem as Christians to want to say that if we have faith in God, if we put our trust in Jesus, if we are filled with the joy and hope of the Lord, we will never experience grief, or sorrow, or sadness, or loss.
But we do. We are not Stepford children. Nor would God want us to be. We are frail human beings who need to be able to express our feelings of frustration and failure. But more than that, we are human beings who love so deeply, so completely that when one sheep is lost to the Great Shepherd of Life, we mourn.
It’s okay to mourn.
It’s okay to cry.
When Jessica, a mom of four, couldn’t stop her 18-year-old son from doing drugs that she knew would eventually kill him, she sat down and cried. She had tried everything in her power to make him see, understand what was happening to him. What she could see and he couldn’t. That day, that last day when he left the house, he told her, he hated her. That she was interfering in his life. It was the last day she would ever see her son. That afternoon, he would wrap his car around a tree, high on cocaine. Jessica cried. She sobbed from the depths of her heart. She had done everything she could. But she had still lost her son.
When Jim, a coach and mentor to a faltering older man in an AA group, saw his friend stagger into a bar, he tried to stop him. The friend, drunk and angry, beat Jim badly. The next day, Jim tried to pick him up and tried to take him in to rehab. But the man refused to go. When Jim looked for him again the next day, the man had disappeared. Jim later found out that his charge had been arrested for beating his own wife and daughter and was in the County Jail. Tears filled Jim’s eyes. He couldn’t save his charge.
When Jillian, the company treasurer, discovered the missing money, she scoured the books to find the answer to the company’s dwindling resources. It didn’t take long to discover that the CEO had been mis-using the company funds for personal items –hotels, cars, yachts, trips, dinners, jewelry. Caring about the company she had worked for so many years and knowing the CEO was her old friend, she approached him, and tried to reason with him to put the money back. She warned that even if she didn’t say anything, someone would eventually find out. She told him, she cared about him, and didn’t want to see him fail. She pleaded. And she urged. The CEO treated her badly, denying what he’d done. The next day, Jillian got a “pink slip” on her desk. She was dismissed for mishandling funds. Jillian cried that day, not because she had been framed. But because she had lost her friend. And she knew, he was lost. And it would only be a matter of time, before he would pay for what he had done. She couldn’t help him. He wouldn’t let her.
When Jesus made his way toward Jerusalem, he knew which Pharisees and Priests had it in for him. He had been provoking them, telling them, they were wrong in the way they were handling the Temple’s money, in the ways they were controlling the people, in the ways they were abusing their power. Jesus tried to warn them of their deceit and corruption. He told them stories to try to get his message through, God’s message through. He embarrassed them in public. He tried to force their hand. He provoked them at their own banquets. He thwarted their authority. He warned them in every way he could think of that their way was not God’s way. They sneered at him. They mocked him. They plotted to kill him.
Jesus mourned Jerusalem, not once, but several times, as we see in Luke. In our scripture today, he mourns that they won’t listen. On the final day when Jesus will ride into Jerusalem, he will cry over God’s beloved city, and God’s beloved children. Tears of loss. Tears of a breaking heart.
Sometimes, our best friends, and closest relatives are the ones we most can’t save. It’s easier to save those who have no connection to us. But when those closest to us don’t listen, won’t move, we mourn. We cry. Our heart breaks.
And it’s okay to cry.
Mourning, lamenting, crying, frustration. These are evidences and manifestations of love, the kind of love the runs long and deep. The kind of love that involves loyalty, and trust, and sacrifice.
A lament for one of God’s beloved that you cannot save means “not in this time or place.” It doesn’t mean “not ever.” But it means perhaps not “you.”
Knowing this may not quell your turbulent sea of emotions. It doesn’t stop the flow of tears from coming. But a lament is for a season. And God always wins.
Jesus knew that God would win in the end. Jesus knew that God always wins, that love always wins. But Jesus also knew that he couldn’t accomplish everything and save everyone in his human lifetime.
All things must be left to God. Some things we can leave to human freedom, and human will, or willfulness. Some things must wait until the “Time of God’s Great Harvest.”
Jesus loved all of God’s children so deeply, that he wanted to save them from the consequences of their own choices, consequences he knew would come to them. We know that Jesus loved the poor, the sick, the lowly. But we see here today, that Jesus also loved the Pharisees, the Priests, the Teachers, the abusers of those poor and lowly. Jesus even loved the ones who wanted to kill him, and loved them from the very depths of his heart. He tried desperately throughout his ministry to reach them in every possible way he could, even giving the highest seat of honor on his right to Judas at the last meal he would eat on earth, the Last Supper.
Jesus wanted to bring them all of Jerusalem back to God, all of these lost Sons. And he wanted to do it now. He realized, he couldn’t. The consequences would have to happen.
And Jesus mourned.
Jesus lamented for those he couldn’t move, those who were most difficult to save, those who were supposed to be the closest ones to God and yet separated themselves the furthest from God. These were God’s children, God’s shepherds. These were God’s prophets who had gone astray.
How that must have hurt. If there’s any passage in which we see the truth of Jesus as owning God’s heart, it is in this one, when Jesus mourns the fate of those persecuting him the most and speaks of them as his children.
When you have children, you realize the moment they begin to walk, that if you continue to hold them, hold their hands at every step, regulate their every move, that your children cannot grow, learn, experience, live their fullest.
As our children grow, we gradually release the reins until one day, those children make decisions of their own. And, in their choices, they will face consequences of their own. Some of them will break our hearts.
When we baptize a child into the Great Cloud of Witnesses that have come before us and will continue to come after us, we vow to raise that child in the Christian faith. We teach, pray with, worship with, guide that child in their faith and understanding of Jesus until that child reaches an age of their own decision. But we never stop loving them. And when and if they fail, we mourn that failure greatly, as if it were our own. And we never lose hope that they will return to the fold.
God our heavenly parent created us to learn, to grow, to choose, to try the world out on our own two feet. But God never stops loving us. God will never stop pursuing us to bring us home.
Jesus’ lament for the Pharisees, for the Priests, for Jerusalem, for God’s prophets and teachers, comes from the depth of his love for all of God’s children. His frustration is one that comes from the love of relationship, of engagement and, commitment. His is a love for a people, a community, a faith, and a place where it all took place from the beginning of time.
Jesus’ lament comes from a parent’s response to a wayward child. Jesus’ tears are that of a broken heart --God’s broken heart.
Jesus calls the Pharisees chicks that he wishes he could hold closely. Yet he knows he can’t.
So he tries persuasion. He tells a story of a Son returning to his father. He tells a story of a Manager, who tries to make amends, and a story of a Rich Man who fails to see what he is doing wrong.
And still, they don’t listen.
Jesus’ frustration is evident. His grief is real. The intensity of his emotion when he cries, “Jerusalem, Jerusalem….” is the clue to the depth of his wrenching grief.
He wants to shelter Jerusalem under his wings. He wants to teach them the way, so that their devastation can be averted.
Jesus sings a psalmist’s song. Jesus prays a prophet’s prayer.
But a Song of lament is still a song. A prayer of lament is still a prayer.
Jesus prepares to continue his mission, strong in the knowledge that his grief is only a prelude to a much larger symphony. He will do what he can in his human time. Soon he will enter into God’s time. And He will do in the heavenly realm, what in this realm he could not.
In the end, God always reigns victorious.
The prophets knew it. David knew it. The Saints knew it. Jesus knew it. And you know it too.
Jesus may not have saved every person in “real” time. But God’s time transcends all time. This is what kept Jesus going, even to the cross.
This too is what keeps us going. This is what gives us hope—this is our trust in the midst of grief. God will not be without a witness.
So we cry our own tears of lament, tears for the violence, the apathy, the poverty, the degradations of our world. We cry for those we cannot move, we cannot save, who refuse to listen, who push God away. We cry for what we cannot do, and render our frustrations for what we don’t know how to solve.
But we too know what the saints before us knew without a doubt –that God is not finished. All things are possible in God’s time.
And God will be victorious.
Not in our time. But in God’s time.
[optional]:
In the basket at the rear of the church are crystal teardrops. Take one with you as you go today. Keep this teardrop with you as you go into a world in which your love may feel like you’re not winning. Know, that at some day, at some time, at some place in history, God’s love will win. God always wins.
Based on the Story Lectionary
Major Text
Jesus Laments for Jerusalem (Luke 13:31-35)
Minor Text
Joseph Weeps in Compassion for His Brothers (Genesis 42-45)
David Weeps on the Mount of Olives (2 Samuel 15)
The Book of Lamentations (for the destruction of the Temples)
Psalm 11: The Lord Will Examine
Psalm 12: Help Lord, for No One is Faithful Anymore
Psalm 69: Zeal for Your House Consumes Me (A Lament of David)
The Mark of the Saved and Ezekiel’s Lament for Jerusalem (Ezekiel 9)
I Weep for My People Who Have Been Deceitful (Jeremiah 9)
Restrain Your Eyes from Tears for Your Work Will Be Rewarded (Jeremiah 31 – Rachel’s Weeping in Ramah)
Joel’s Call for Lament (Joel 1)
Jesus Laments Jerusalem and its Keepers (Matthew 23)
Paul Weeps for His Church (2 Corinthians 2)
Luke’s Account of Jesus’ Lament Over Jerusalem
At that time some Pharisees came to Jesus and said to him, “Leave this place and go somewhere else. Herod wants to kill you.”
He replied, “Go tell that fox, ‘I will keep on driving out demons and healing people today and tomorrow, and on the third day I will reach my goal.’ In any case, I must press on today and tomorrow and the next day—for surely no prophet can die outside Jerusalem!
“Jerusalem, Jerusalem, you who kill the prophets and stone those sent to you, how often I have longed to gather your children together, as a hen gathers her chicks under her wings, and you were not willing. Look, your house is left to you desolate. I tell you, you will not see me again until you say, ‘Blessed is he who comes in the name of the Lord.’”
Image Exegesis: Fox and Hound
Now Herod the tetrarch heard of all that was done by him: and he was perplexed, because that it was said of some, that John was risen from the dead. (Luke 9:7)
Catch for us the foxes, the little foxes that ruin the vineyards, our vineyards that are in bloom. (Song of Solomon 2:15)
The Fox of Galilee and the Hound of Heaven –that was my first impression of the opposing personalities of Herod and Jesus when I read this scripture.
Some of the Pharisees came to warn Jesus that Herod was looking for him, and wanted to kill him. Jesus had avoided Herod since he had killed John (the Baptist). But the stories of his healings and the crowds he had been drawing in Galilee and in the surrounding areas had gotten back to Herod, who never missed a beat in what went on in his territories.
The fact is, Herod was haunted by the death sentence he had bestowed upon John. A long-time admirer of John’s ministry, Herod felt manipulated into killing John in order to save face among his wealthy, political friends and with his wife. He was spooked now by Jesus, who seemed to be growing as well-known, powerful, and controversial as John had been. For a time in fact, Herod wondered if Jesus were somehow John come back to life to plague him even in death, because for Herod, everything was of course, all about “him.”
Jesus calls him a “fox,” one of the most derogatory insults he could use, for the tetrarch. It was the equivalent of calling him “sleazy” or “an impotent coward” or worse, “a murderous low-life.”
A fox in Jesus’ time was not just a synonym for “craftiness” as we might assume, but it was also a descriptor that meant one who sneaks in under the dark of night to steal the sheep and kill them, not for food but for sport. Not courageous enough to face his opponent eye to eye, a “fox” was a backstabber, a sneaky, sleazy creature that would stay away during the daylight, but then attack when you were asleep or not looking. He would sneak past the Shepherds, and attack a sheep in its own pasture.
The fox was seen as the worst of animals, without honor, and with a “fake” regality. Herod may have the power of a tetrarch, but Jesus noted that his personality was that of a common “fox.”* Herod “the fox” had only the daytime label of “leader.” Underneath, he was morally depraved, a degenerate, merely a scoundrel. Like the jackal, the fox is a shadowy critter, not worth its coat.
The Syrian fox, a native of Palestine, was the Shepherd’s worst foe. Whether Herod, or the Herodians in general, they were not friends of the Pharisees. Perhaps this is why, even they would warn Jesus of Herod’s undercover plan.
In Hebrew, “lesser men” are called foxes. Those who are great men are called “lions,” as in the Lion of Judah. Lions were the true kings, as the lion Aslan in C.S. Lewis attests. But similar in stature to the lion was the horse…or the sheep’s dog.
If the “fox” is a weasel, and underhanded destroyer, then the sheep’s dog was the sheep’s protector. In Israel, the national breed of dog was and is the “Canaan” dog. Intelligent with sharp herding instincts, the Canaan dog is compared to the greyhound in honor and loyalty.
In 1893, Francis Thompson wrote a poem called “The Hound of Heaven.” In the poem, God (Jesus) is portrayed as a Hound, who will not let go of pursuing his children no matter how long it takes. With earnest, God keeps after his children, until he has saved each one.
This is the description too of the Sheep Herding dog, the dog who will go after the sheep that has been taken. With tenacity and loyalty, the dog will make sure each and every sheep is safely in the pen.
This tenacity, this idea of a God in pursuit, who wants to save every person from him or herself is the basis of Jesus’ reply about Herod. “Go tell that fox, ‘I will keep on driving out demons and healing people today and tomorrow, and on the third day I will reach my goal.’ In any case, I must press on today and tomorrow and the next day—for surely no prophet can die outside Jerusalem!”
Jesus is determined to finish God’s mission, no matter what. He is determined to save everyone he can, no matter who is trying to stop him.
Then Jesus goes into a brief lament for Jerusalem, where his heart breaks for those he knows he cannot save.
Jesus does not waste time with Herod. Herod is of little concern. Jesus’ heart breaks for Jerusalem, for the Pharisees, for the Teachers, and those whom he wants to pursue to save, like the Hound of Heaven that he is.
In Luke 19 (during procession of the lambs….Jesus would weep over Jerusalem and warn them yet once more).
As he approached Jerusalem and saw the city, he wept over it and said, “If you, even you, had only known on this day what would bring you peace—but now it is hidden from your eyes. The days will come upon you when your enemies will build an embankment against you and encircle you and hem you in on every side. They will dash you to the ground, you and the children within your walls. They will not leave one stone on another, because you did not recognize the time of God’s coming to you.”
Jerusalem, Jerusalem….Jesus cries. Just as we heard the cries before: Martha, Martha…..Absalom, Absalom! His grief is evident. His tension high.
Jesus’ concern is for God’s people. Even Herod, that fox, won’t keep him from them.
*See the Jerusalem Perspective.com (fox and Herod). See also Tropologia by Benjamin Keach “Fox.”