High above a small village in the French Alps towers a famous mountain named Mont Blanc. Mont Blanc serves as a permanent challenge to mountain climbers. Nearby is an even more difficult and dangerous crag, called in English, “Fool's Needle.” That mountain sounds appropriately named to me. “Fool's Needle.” Why do mountain climbers tie themselves to one another? asks the old joke—to keep the sensible ones from going home. That’s Fool’s Needle. Standing 11,487 ft. high—only the more experienced mountaineers even attempt to scale its slopes.
Sometime back a young student was trapped for three days on the north face of Fool’s Needle. He was dangling from a narrow ledge when rescue workers found him. His hands were frozen, and later, from a hospital bed, he told about the harrowing ordeal. “I repeated over and over to myself,” he said, “I must hold on, I must hold on at any price.” There are times in our life’s journey when many of us will whisper those desperate words, “I must hold on. I must hold on.”
There was an interesting man in the Old Testament who certainly knew what it was to hold on. His name was Job. Listen as the author of this drama describes Job: “In the land of Uz there lived a man whose name was Job. This man was blameless and upright; he feared God and shunned evil.”
Now this is an interesting twist right at the beginning of Job’s story. This drama takes place in a time when it was assumed that prosperity and good fortune came as the result of a righteous lifestyle. If you lived as God would have you live, you would be blessed financially and physically as well as spiritually. Do you agree with this theology? There are many who have this shallow approach to faith even today. I don’t know of many of Jesus’ original followers who occupied beautiful and ornate mansions—except after their death. And yet here we are introduced to a man who was chosen to experience unbelievable pain and suffering. And the reason he was chosen to experience these tragic circumstances was that he was “blameless and upright; he feared God and shunned evil.”
You know the story. In the course of a conversation between God and the fallen angel Satan, God allowed Satan to strip away from Job everything he held dear—his family and friends, his health and his wealth. Nothing was spared except his life. His body was covered with awful sores. His friends accused him of some unknown sin, since it was an important piece of Old Testament theology that suffering was a by-product of sin. But Job knew he had not committed any sin. Even God knew that. And yet, there he was. Desperately holding on.
No one in this room has suffered quite like Job, but a few of us may have come close. It may be a problem with our health or a problem with someone we love, or a problem in our workplace. If that describes your life, only you know. Whatever that problem may be, there is a battle going on, and you are not sure that you can endure.
What is the secret to holding on—when you are down to your last shred of hope, when there is no longer enough rope to make a knot to hold on to? Where do you find help at such times? Let me give you some simple steps that I am convinced will help.
First of all, learn to live one day at a time. Jesus was giving us one of the great lessons of life when he said, “Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.”
You may know the story of the city man who went out to the country and watched a farmer sawing a log with long, even, measured strokes. This city fellow said, “Here, let me saw the log.” He also started in with slow, measured strokes, but before long he accelerated the tempo. After a few moments of frantic sawing, the stroke went crooked and the saw caught.
The city man said, “I guess I didn’t do so well, after all.”
The farmer replied, “It’s because you allowed your mind to get ahead of the saw.” (1)
Sometimes you and I may have a tendency to do that, too—to let our mind get ahead of the saw. We live not in the now but in the terrible, “What if?” Do you know about the “what ifs”? What if the lump is cancerous? What if the business fails? What if she gets involved with the wrong kind of boy? We add to today’s burdens the burdens of an imagined tomorrow—a tomorrow that may never come, not in the form we imagine it.
There is an old Swedish saying that is literally translated, “There’s no cow on the ice.” It means, “There is nothing to worry about.” A similar Swedish saying is “There’s no danger on the roof,” which means the same thing. Don’t worry about something that may never happen. Of course, if there is both ice and a cow on your roof, maybe you should start to worry. (2)
Pastor James Gordon Gilkey had a great illustration for helping us understand how to view the challenges and problems that worry us. He said that most of us view our lives as if we are standing in the middle of a circle, and problems, challenges, fears, burdens are surrounding us and pushing in on us. Can anybody relate to that description?
He said that it is more accurate to picture our life as an hourglass. There is a large bowl at the top and a large bowl at the bottom. They are connected by a thin tube that only allows one grain of sand to flow through at a time.
No matter how busy, how burdened, how hectic our lives seem, we need to focus only on the challenge that is present in that moment. Not on the previous challenge. Not on the next challenge. One challenge at a time, one task at a time, one job at a time. Focus on mastering this present moment, and you’ll find yourself better equipped to face the stresses of the day. (3)
It’s so easy to ignore Jesus’ instructions against worrying. It’s so easy to defend our obsession with anxiety. Is it really that wrong? Let’s say we eliminated worry from our lives—what would replace it?
I want to read you a quote from Francois Fenelon, a French Bishop who lived in the 17th century. Fenelon wrote: “Don’t worry about the future—worry quenches the work of grace within you. The future belongs to God. He is in charge of all things. Never second-guess Him.” Did you hear that? “Don’t worry about the future—worry quenches the work of grace within you. The future belongs to God. He is in charge of all things. Never second-guess Him.”
Think about how this is true in your own life. “. . . worry quenches the work of grace within you.” How often have you looked back at some difficult time in your life and seen overwhelming evidence that God was in control? Why didn’t you see God’s mercy and power at work in that moment of suffering? Because you let worry quench the work of grace within you.
How can you replace worry with the work of God’s grace in your life? You can start by living life one day at a time. You see, on one level, Job’s problems were much more severe than any that you or I are likely to face. On the other hand, we complicate our lives by adding dread about tomorrow to today’s concerns. So we may not actually cope as well as Job did. Let go of tomorrow and enjoy living this one moment. Live one day at a time. That is the first key.
The second key is this: Remember that you are loved. The feeling of being loved is the most critical factor in our ability to function as whole human beings. When we do not feel loved, we do not develop the emotional and psychological resources we need to cope with life’s various stresses.
In October 2019 Staff Sgt. Philip Gray was deployed to Afghanistan. Staff Sgt. Gray knew he would be gone from home for close to a year, and he was concerned for his 7-year-old daughter, Rosie. His absence would be hard on her.
So before he left, Gray sat down and wrote 270 notes for his daughter, with instructions for his wife to place the notes in Rosie’s lunchbox each day. The notes were simple words of encouragement—telling her that she was Supergirl, telling her that she was smart, telling her to run fast in P.E. class. But to little Rosie, every single note added up to one big message: no matter how far away her father seemed to be, his heart was there with her. He wanted to be sure she knew he loved her.
Staff Sgt. Philip Gray returned home in August 2020—just three days before Rosie’s eighth birthday, so he could tell her he loved her in person. (4)
The greatest need that we have is to love and to be loved. In the absence of that love, we become stunted emotionally and psychologically. Many of us have an innate sense of dread about life. In reality we do not have what the psychologist Erickson called “a basic sense of trust.” So we grow helpless in the face of adversity, or we panic and do dumb things. Do we not know? Have we not heard? There is One who loves us so much that He gave His own Son in our behalf. Live one day at a time. Recognize that you are loved.
And finally, a third key: Learn how to let go. It’s a paradox. The best way to hold on is to let go. As someone has put it so beautifully: “Let go and let God.” We need to know how to release our worries, our fears, our guilt, our anger, our resentment. There are times when we need to simply let go.
Ruth Graham, Mrs. Billy Graham, wrote in Christianity Today of how Malcolm Muggeridge, at one time England’s chief skeptic and agnostic of the airwaves, in his later years became a committed follower of Christ. Subsequently he was invited to speak at a prominent church. Many local atheists arrived to heckle Muggeridge as a traitor to their cause. Most of the questions revolved around the issue of ‘Why have you let us down?’ Muggeridge noticed a boy in a wheelchair struggling to speak. When the boy continued with his contortions, still unable to say what he wanted, Muggeridge said, “There is someone who wants to ask me a question. I will wait and answer it.”
When the boy managed only to make more agonized motions, Muggeridge stepped forward, put his arm on the boy’s shoulder and said, “Just take it easy, Son. It’s all right. What is it you want to ask me? I want to hear, and I will just wait.”
The boy blurted, “You say there is a God who loves us.”
“Yes,” the world renowned scholar spoke compassionately.
“Then” asked the boy, “why me?” Boy, that’s a hard question. I’m sure Job asked it many times. The room in which Muggeridge was speaking became as silent as a funeral parlor. Even Mr. Muggeridge didn’t speak at first. But after thinking through his answer, he said, “If you were fit, would you have come to hear me tonight?” The boy shook his head. After another silence, Muggeridge answered, “God has asked a hard thing of you. But remember, he asked something even harder of Jesus Christ. He died for you. Maybe this was his way of making sure you’d hear of his love and come to put your faith in him.” “Could be,” the boy replied. (5)
I’m not sure Sir Malcolm’s answer to the boy’s question was very satisfying. But notice: Job didn’t really find an answer to that question either except to keep holding on to his faith in God and in the end he would see that, indeed, his Redeemer lives.
If you read through the Bible, or through the pages of human history, you discover that God works through strengths and weaknesses, through wins and losses, through victories and heartbreaks. If we could control the future, we would eliminate all frustrations and heartbreaks. But then we’d also miss out on opportunities for growth, for faith, for compassion, for overcoming. We would miss out on the grace of God. It is in holding on, enduring, not giving up on God, that we see God’s power and God’s love most clearly. And we learn that we can trust God through every circumstance, even when we cannot see Him.
Author Marion Bond West tells of a time when she felt far away from God. Maybe you know the pain of walking through a season like this. It was the middle of August, a blazing hot day, and she happened to see a dog sitting on the sidewalk outside an Applebee’s restaurant. Inside the restaurant, she met the dog’s owner, a homeless man named Johnny. Johnny’s dog was named Cheeseburger. Johnny could have found a comfortable place to stay at the local homeless shelter, but the shelter didn’t accept dogs. Instead, Johnny erected a tent in the woods nearby. He wasn’t going anywhere without Cheeseburger.
When Marion asked Johnny about his own needs, she was struck by his answer. He said, “Here’s the way it works. Every morning me and Cheeseburger step out of our tent and look up at the sky. And I say, ‘Lord, we belong to you. We trust you. Take care of us another day. Thank you.’ And then at night when we lie down to sleep, I look out at the stars and say, ‘We still trust you, God.’” And he smiled at her.
As Marion drove away, she couldn’t stop thinking about the deep faith and peace that Johnny radiated. It was an inner peace that had been lacking in her own life lately. So at the next traffic light, she glanced up at the sky and prayed one simple prayer: “Lord, I belong to you. I trust you. Take care of me another day. Thank you.” And she drove away with a fresh sense of peace she hadn’t experienced in some time. (6)
Job did not have the advantage that you and I have. He didn’t have the life or the teachings of Jesus to look to. He knew and trusted God, but he did not know how committed God was to his well‑being. Only Christ can give us that assurance. Live one day at a time. Remember that there is Someone who loves you and upon whom you can cast your burden. Learn the art of releasing your troubles. Let go and let God.
1. Norman Vincent Peale, A Guide to Confident Living (New York: Prentice Hall, Inc.).
2. “40 brilliant idioms that simply can’t be translated literally” by Helene Batt and Kate Torgovnick May, translated by Matti Jääro, Ted.com, January 20, 2015, https://blog.ted.com/40-idioms-that-cant-be-translated-literally/comment-page-10/.
3. Quoted in Glenn Van Ekeren, ed., Speaker’s Sourcebook II (Englewood Cliffs. NJ: Prentice‑Hall, Inc, 1994), p. 359. Cited by David Jeremiah, Slaying The Giants In Your Life (Nashville: W Publishing Group, 2001), p. 159.
4. “Dad writes 270 lunchbox notes to daughter for each day he’s deployed” by Nicole Pelletiere, https://www.goodmorningamerica.com/family/story/dad-writes-270-lunchbox-notes-daughter-day-hes-74166938.
5. Ruth Graham, “Why Me?” Christianity Today, 7 Sept., 1982. Cited in The Storm Within by Mark Littleton, Tyndale House Publishers, Wheaton, IL, 1994.
6. “A Dog Named Cheeseburger” by Marion Bond West, Guideposts True Inspirational Stories: 10 Real Life Stories of Hope and Faith.