Matthew 11:25-30 · Rest for the Weary
Free At Last!
Matthew 11:25-30
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by King Duncan
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The plot of a recent Tom Hanks' movie, The Terminal, sounds so outrageous that it is hard to believe that it is based on a true story. In 1986, an Iranian man named Merhan Karimi Nasseri flew to Paris, France, without his immigration card or other proper paperwork. He never should have been allowed to board the plane without the paperwork, but somehow it was overlooked. Without his papers, the French authorities could not let him into the country, but they could not deport him either. So they forced him to live in the airport until they figured out his situation.

Nasseri seems to like living in the airport. For more than fifteen years, he has been allowed to remain there. He eats at the food court, reads the newspaper, speaks to the airport employees. Even when offered the chance to leave and start life over in a new country, Nasseri chooses to stay. The airport's doctor believes that Nasseri has become paranoid and confused by his loss of contact with the outside world. Nasseri says, "This is my dream world. I don't have any worries." (1) Most of us would not like to be confined to an airport, or anyplace else. But, for Nasseri, it has become his home.

Let's talk about freedom today. That makes sense on this Independence Day weekend when we celebrate our freedom as a people. It is said that King George wrote in his diary, July 4, 1776, "Nothing of importance happened today." Well, we think something of importance happened, and we are grateful that it did.

Freedom. What a beautiful word. It's what our text is about. Jesus says, "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light." (NIV) What a great thought to begin our day. "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest." Is there anyone here who is weary? Weary, say, from work?

Michael Boyer wrote an article for the National Geographic titled, "A Work-Weary World?" that may give us a little comfort. He notes that Americans are famous for their work ethic. However, according to a study by the International Labor Organization we are no longer the world leaders in hours worked per year. South Korea's booming economy necessitates a six-day work week. In the past few years, South Koreans have averaged 2,390 hours of work per year, as compared to the 1,792 hours of work per year in the U.S. Workers in Japan, Poland, Australia, and New Zealand also worked more hours than U.S. workers. Swedish workers clocked the fewest work hours in an average year, only about 1,337. (2)

Now before you pack your bags for Sweden, remember those cold, dark winters. Also, you don't speak the language. Some of you, I know, are weary from work.

The stress on modern people has been well documented--particularly those with families. There are many people today working full-time on the job and then working just as hard off the clock meeting their responsibilities at home. Of course, you don't have to work outside the home to have more than enough to do.

Kim Bolton tells of a workday that many moms can relate to. She looked around at mounds of unwashed laundry and un-mopped floors, and she silently dedicated herself to a day full of cleaning. And just as she was getting into a cleaning rhythm, her two-year-old son called to her, "Hey, Mom, why dontcha come and sit wif me in da big chair. "

Kim protested. She tried to explain how busy she was. She promised to sit with him later. But he continued to smile that charming smile and pat the chair next to him. Finally, Kim put down her laundry and settled into the chair with her son. The two of them snuggled for a minute or so, then her son patted her on the leg and said, "You can go now."

In a hectic day, he had insisted that she take just a moment to rest with him. He understood her busyness, but he also understood that their time together was more important to both of them. Here's what's interesting. For just a moment, Kim Bolton said her two-year-old boy was an example of Jesus to her. (3) "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened," says Jesus, "and I will give you rest."

Some of us are weary from work. Others of us are weary from worry. Much of our fatigue is mental and emotional. I am always amazed at the number of things some people find to worry about.

An elderly woman at the nursing home received a visit from one of her fellow church members.

"How are you feeling?" the visitor asked.

"Oh," said the lady, "I'm just worried sick!"

"What are you worried about, dear?" her friend asked. "You look like you're in good health. They are taking care of you, aren't they?"

"Yes, they are taking very good care of me."

"Are you in any pain?" she asked.

"No, I have never had a pain in my life."

"Well, what are you worried about?" her friend asked again.

The lady leaned back in her rocking chair and slowly explained her major worry. "Every close friend I ever had has already died and gone on to heaven," she said. "I'm afraid they're all wondering where I went." (4)

Few emotions take a toll on us like worry does. Author Stephanie Stokes Oliver in her book, Daily Cornbread, asks whether we are worriers or warriors? Chronic worriers let their anxiety and fear interfere with living their life to the fullest. They manifest their worry in physical symptoms like headaches and knotted muscles. Worriers seem unable to take control of their situation and make a positive change for themselves. Warriors, on the other hand, find healthy ways to deal with their fears. They don't automatically shut down and go into crisis mode. They trust that God will sustain them. Warriors take positive action to change a negative situation. (5)

Astronaut Jim Lovell is a warrior. In a news conference he was asked about Apollo 13. He was in command of that spacecraft when it experienced an explosion on its way to the moon. With their oxygen almost gone, their electrical system out, their spaceship plunging toward lunar orbit, it appeared Lovell and his crew would be marooned hundreds of thousands of miles from Earth.

Lovell was asked, "Were you worried?" Such as obvious question drew snickers. But then Lovell gave a surprising answer. "No, not really." he said. "You see, worry is a useless emotion. I was too busy fixing the problem to worry about it. As long as I had one card left to play, I played it." (6)

Jim Lovell is a warrior. People who allow worry to overwhelm them will often complain of fatigue. Fatigue, they'll tell you, is why they do not do anything about their situation.

Friends, you may be tired because of your work. But more of us are tired because of what is happening in our brains than what is happening in the workplace. Negative thoughts will drain the life right out of you. It's true.

We've talked about this before. You come in from work barely dragging one foot in front of the other. Someone calls inviting you to do something you really want to do. Suddenly you have more energy than you've had for a long time. It's not the work, it's the worry. How we look at our lives makes an enormous difference in how we handle our lives. Are you weary from work? Are you weary from worry?

Some of the worry we experience may come to us from a breakdown in integrity. Nothing will drain us like the fear of discovery. Always looking over our shoulder will not allow us to make much progress in the world.

In his book Uncle Tungsten, Dr. Oliver Sacks recalls some of his most vivid boyhood memories of growing up among an extended family of scientists and doctors. One of his more colorful relatives was Aunt Lina.

Aunt Lina was a tiny woman with, as Sacks recalls, an "iron will." She was a sociable woman with a great ability to listen to people and extract from them their deepest thoughts and secrets. Her great listening skills led her to collect gossip on all the most prominent citizens in her town. Aunt Lina used this sensitive knowledge to raise funds for her pet cause, Hebrew University. Each year, she would call up a variety of people and promise them secrecy in exchange for a donation to the University. University officials never guessed that one of their most effective fund raisers was blackmailing their donors. (7)

I wonder if there are any of us who carry around secrets that we would pay good money to keep hidden. (Hmmm. That's something to think about when we have our next finance campaign. Just kidding, of course.) Nevertheless, anything that robs us of our peace, our joy, will drain our bodies as well as our souls.

Are you weary this morning? Wear from work? Weary from worry? Weary from guilt or fear? Hear again the words of Jesus, "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light."

Dr. Neil T. Anderson puts it like this: "Jesus invites you to a restful walk in tandem with Him, just as two oxen walk together under the same yoke. 'How can a yoke be restful?' you ask. Because Jesus' yoke is an easy yoke. As the lead ox, Jesus walks at a steady pace. If you pace yourself with Him, your burden will be easy. But if you take a passive approach to the relationship, you'll be painfully dragged along in the yoke because Jesus keeps walking. Or if you try to race ahead or turn off in another direction, the yoke will chafe your neck and your life will be uncomfortable. The key to a restful yoke-relationship with Jesus is to learn from Him and open yourself to His gentleness and humility." (8)

You need to understand that this is more than a pious platitude. The reason modern life is so draining on us has nothing to do with our work. People have always had to work. The reason we are weary is that we do not have the spiritual, mental and emotional resources to deal with this brave new world. We need to ask Christ to share our yoke. We need to ask Christ to set us free from our negativity and to help us learn to trust him. When we are able to do that then we will be free at last. Even if we were imprisoned in an airport or a prisoner-of-war camp or in a dead-end job or whatever our outer prison might be, inside we would be tasting the sweet taste of freedom, because if Christ makes us free, we are free indeed!


1. From Uncle John's Slightly Irregular Bathroom Reader by the Bathroom Readers' Institute (Ashland, OR: Bathroom Readers' Press, 2004), pp. 99-101.

2. December 2004.

3. Kim Bolton with Chris Wave, Finding God Between a Rock and a Hard Place, compiled by Lil Copan and Elisa Fryling (Wheaton, IL: Harold Shaw Publishers, 1999), pp. 134-135.

4. bounce-jokeseveryday-1807004@ripple.dundee.net

5. Stephanie Stokes Oliver. (New York: Doubleday, 1999).

6. Second Thoughts--One Hundred Upbeat Messages for Beat-up Americans by Mort Crim, Health Communication, Inc., Deerfield Beach, Florida, 1997, p. 154.

7. Oliver Sacks, Uncle Tungsten (New York: Alfred A. Knopf, 2001), pp. 97-98.

8. Victory over the Darkness (Ventura, CA: Regal Books, 1990), p. 102.

Dynamic Preaching, Collected Sermons, by King Duncan