Mark 3:31-35 · Jesus’ Mother and Brothers
Brothers and Sisters of Jesus
Mark 3:31-35
Sermon
by George Reed
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The gospels are very open in sharing the opposition that Jesus faced in his ministry. They are not afraid to have Jesus himself report that he was accused of being a glutton and a wino or, in this lesson, of his family trying to restrain him when the people thought he was insane. The religious folks accused him of even worse by suggesting that he was actually in league with the prince of demons. After Jesus offers a convincing reproof of this charge, his mother and family arrive and try to have a word with him. When they cannot get to him because of the crowd the word is passed to him that they are outside. His reply is to recast the idea of family in terms of relationship to God rather than in terms of blood.

"Who is my mother and my brothers?" he asks and then goes on to answer, "Whoever does the will of God is my brother and sister and mother." It is not that Jesus turns against his mother and family. His mother will follow him and stand beneath the cross when he is crucified. He will entrust her care to his beloved disciple. His brother, James, will become the leader of the Jerusalem church and will be a faithful follower. Jesus does not despise his family but rather calls on his listeners to understand that as important as family is, our relationship to God defines to a much greater extent who we are.

There was a time in our culture when it was important to be identified as a member of the church. It was the respectable, acceptable thing to do. While it was recent enough that some of us can still remember it, things have changed drastically. We can lament this change, talk about how terrible it is, and find all kinds of things to blame it on, or we can take advantage of the situation. In a time when people no longer just show up in churches because it is the thing to do, we are given the opportunity to bring them in by offering them a relationship with God. What we have seen as a breakdown may actually be a breakthrough as we find a chance to offer folks something beyond just belonging to "the family" by offering them the opportunity to become disciples of Jesus Christ.

So often in the church, the discussion revolves around the question of how we can grow the size of a congregation. This is the wrong question. It is not about growing the size of the family, the congregation, but rather about how we can help people do the will of God. Our goal should not be to make sure that a congregation survives but that the reign of God is spread throughout the world. Although we may have emotional links to a particular congregation, it is not our organizational survival that matters in the end, but, rather, whether we are able to reach people with the good news of Jesus Christ.

Sometimes one hears the objection that the congregation can't reach others if it isn't here and that is true, but the reign of God does not depend on one particular congregation existing. It depends on those Christians who are part of the family being faithful in the best way they possibly can. For some of us it may mean making the hard decision that we could do better work by shutting our doors and taking ourselves and our resources to another congregation where we could be involved more in ministry and less in the maintenance of our organization.

Many of us have been involved in organizations that were dying. It may have been a Rotary, Lions, or Kiwanis club or any of a number of other groups. If you have been there you know what it is like to have the focus shift from the work of the group to the survival of the group. People are sought out not because the organization can help that person or because that person can contribute to the mission of the group but rather because they are a warm body who hopefully has some money to spare.

There is a pastor who, when his congregation says that they need young families, is quick to assert that it is not true. "There are many congregations which survive with only older members" he says. "They demand fewer programs and they have more dedication to the church than young families. Young families will only make us work harder and spend more money. We don't need them for this congregation to survive." Then after a few minutes of shocked silence he will say, "But there are young families in our neighborhood who need Jesus Christ and the church. We need to reach them not because they will help us but because we need to help them." It is not about enlarging the family so it can survive, but rather it is about helping others to know the joy of a relationship with God in Jesus Christ.

There are all kinds of programs and special campaigns that congregations can run to try to draw in crowds. Some of them are awful and some of them are very good. In evaluating them, however, we need to keep in mind that our goal is to make disciples of Jesus Christ and not perpetuate an organization. We are about the work of inviting people to come and do the will of God for their lives and for the life of the world. We have the way to a full and abundant life that offers meaning and hope to a world gone mad. Whatever kind of program or advertising campaign we may embark on, it needs to be for the purpose of helping us reach people for God. If our congregation doesn't survive, then let it be that we went out bringing people into a life-giving relationship with God through Jesus Christ. Then we will know that we have truly become the mother, brother, and sister of Jesus.

CSS Publishing Company, Inc., Sermons on the Gospel Readings: Sermons for Sundays after Pentecost (First Third), Living in the Spirit, by George Reed