... you know, Anita Bryant was a self-appointed crusader against gay rights a few years ago. Then she went through a divorce, and acquired a drug habit, and was hospitalized for a long time. And today, she's not the same person she was back then. This is what Sydney Harris wrote: He said, "Now that her world has come unstuck, and she is beginning to reglue it, I feel free to point out that she is a better person than when she was so busy being a 'good person.' Sometimes we have to fall from grace to know what ...
... you know, Anita Bryant was a self-appointed crusader against gay rights a few years ago. Then she went through a divorce, and acquired a drug habit, and was hospitalized for a long time. And today, she's not the same person she was back then. This is what Sydney Harris wrote: He said, "Now that her world has come unstuck, and she is beginning to reglue it, I feel free to point out that she is a better person than when she was so busy being a 'good person.' Sometimes we have to fall from grace to know what ...
... who went to a newsstand with Sydney Harris to buy a paper one spring day. Powell greeted the newsman very courteously, but Harris' surprise, the man behind the magazines grunted in a gruff way, shoved a paper at Harris and then very discourteously slapped his ... treat you so rudely?" "Yes, I'm afraid he does," replied Powell. "And are you always so polite and friendly to him?" asked Harris. "Well, yes, I certainly try to be," Powell responded. "But why keep trying to be polite and pleasant to him when he keeps ...
... does not mean we cannot have differences of opinion with a friend. On the contrary, it is only with a friend that you can have a worthwhile debate. It is the mutual covenant of acceptance, love, and trust that frees us for genuine exchange. Sydney Harris, who for many years wrote a daily column for the Chicago Daily News, was right on the button when he commented one day: "Strangers can only be polite; it requires friends to quarrel. When strangers have an argument about politics, religion, or art, they ...
5. The Real Meaning of Christmas
Luke 2:22-40
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The late columnist, Sydney Harris, put his finger on the real meaning of Christmas when he wrote that the real meaning can be summed up in two sentences from Jesus' lips: "If anyone says 'I love God' and hates his neighbor, he is a liar." John 4:20 and "Inasmuch as you did it to ...
... Imagine a DC10 preparing to land; it is filled with preschoolage children. Some of the children sleep; others play and laugh; still others cry out for harried flight attendants' attention. But just before landing, something goes wrong, and the plane plummets to the ground, killing all aboard. "Ten minutes latereven before emergency ... Master. What's yours? 1. Tom Peterson, "Child Survival," THE CHRISTIAN CENTURY, July 18, 1987. 2. Joseph Donkers, CREATION AND HUMAN DYNAMISM, 1985. 3. Sydney H. Schanberg
... machine?" he asked. "It depends," she replied. "What does it say on your shirt?" He yelled back, "University of Michigan." How many times have you heard the expression, "What we have here is a failure to communicate"? Pollster Sydney J. Harris once said something I thought was interesting. He said, "The two words "亙nformation' and "歪ommunication' are often used interchangeably, but they signify quite different things. Information is giving out; communication is getting through." Maybe that is the ...
... . There was a young man, who claimed to be an atheist, who came to speak with the famous preacher of yesteryear, Dr. Harry Emerson Fosdick of Riverside Church, New York City. "Dr. Fosdick, I listened to your sermons, and I just don''t believe them. ... Apostle Paul did not want the Philippians to exchange one form of legalism for another one. It would be like a prisoner in Sydney, Australia, that I heard about recently. It seems that a certain prisoner managed to escape from the facility. He hid in a delivery ...
The severest test of character is not so much the ability to keep a secret as it is, when the secret is finally out, to refrain from disclosing that you knew it all along.
No one should pay attention to a man delivering a lecture or a sermon on his "philosophy of life" until he knows exactly how he treats his wife, his children, his neighbors, his friends, his subordinates, and his enemies.
Almost no one is foolish enough to imagine that he automatically deserves great success in any field of activity yet almost everyone believes that he automatically deserves success in marriage.
An idealist believes the short run doesn't count. A cynic believes the long run doesn't matter. A realist believes that what is done or left undone in the short run determines the long run.
It's surprising how many persons go through life without ever recognizing that their feelings toward other people are largely determined by their feelings toward themselves, and if you're not comfortable within yourself, you can't be comfortable with others.
Ninety percent of the world's woe comes from people not knowing themselves, their abilities, their frailties, and even their real virtues. Most of us go almost all the way through life as complete strangers to ourselves.
People who won't help others in trouble "because they got into trouble through their own fault" would probably not throw a lifeline to a drowning man until they learned whether he fell in through his own fault or not.
The beauty of 'spacing' children many years apart lies in the fact that parents have time to learn the mistakes that were made with the older ones - which permits them to make exactly the opposite mistakes with the younger ones.