Children say the most outrageous things. Laurie and her husband, Ralph, have a little ritual they go through with their kids when one of their pet goldfish dies. The whole family gathers in the bathroom and around the commode. Little Anthony, the 3-year-old, holds the "deceased" while his sister says a little prayer. Then Anthony drops the fish in the bowl and Lexy, the 5-year-old, flushes it to heaven.

One day, during one of these rituals, Lexy asked her dad if "Wito," her Grandpa who passed away a few years ago, was also in heaven. When Ralph said, "Yes," the 3-year-old asked, "Who flushed him?" (1) Children are amazing. Last week we asked, What makes a family? On this Father's Day we ask, Where is your home?

First of all, though, we want to salute our dads. It's not easy being a dad. …