Whether through the complicated process of socialization or good manners or simple maturity, somehow we learn how to respond appropriately to particular phrases in particular settings. “Paper or plastic?” “Cash or charge?” “Smoking or non-smoking?” We negotiate and navigate our lives by knowing what to say and when to say it:
“The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with you.” “And also with you.”
“Excuse me.” “Please.” “Thank you.” “You’re welcome.”
“I love you.” “I love you, too.”
“I’m sorry.” “It’s okay.”
“Lift up your hearts.” “We lift them up to the Lord.”
“What kind of dressing for your salad?”
“I’m fine, how are you?”
We learn the responses, the right answers, and then that knowledge provides us a shield of comfort and confidence as we go through life because we know what to s…