Somewhere on God's green earth lives a lady named Runa Ware, who has written a book entitled All Those in Favor, Say Something. I have not read her book. Here's a little slice of her story. She begins:

I once gave detailed instructions on making a crab casserole to a friend who had often praised the dish when enjoying it in my home. Not long afterward, at a luncheon in her home, she greeted me enthusiastically. "Runa, guess what? I'm serving your gorgeous casserole today."

As we entered the dining room, however, she confided that she had made a f…