Weddings are special. Normally all goes well, even though the happy couple should always be warned that something can easily go wrong and often does (as all the footage on America's Funniest Home Videos through the years regularly attests). My advice to wedding parties is to look for something to go wrong, then consider it God's good gift to keep us on our toes.

Weddings can be adventures. Several years ago one went just beautifully until the very end of the ceremony. In that tender moment when bride and groom kissed, the bride's five-year-old brother, the ring bearer, let out with a"Yuk!" The congregation was on the floor laughing. As people left that afternoon, the placed glowed with everyone's grins. And in years to come, when people think of that wedding, the one thing they will remem…