The season is nearing for planting. Those of you who plant gardens or farms know that it’s vitally important to plant well, tend well, and prune well for the best yield and the best crops. Grapes can be especially finicky to manage. There are many vineyards. But only a selection of grapes yield the best wines. Why?

For those of you who aren’t growers…. let’s come at this another way.

In today’s world, our young people are killing their peers at an alarming rate. While many are quick to blame parents, environment, or society in general, some of us know from experience that sometimes, someone can have the best parents, no lack of money, a good school, a clean biology, and a loving community and still somehow end up with problems or issues that cause him or her to act out in exasperating or…