Too often marriages go down the drain, relationships deteriorate to the point of destruction, people with glaring personal limitation go unchecked all because Christians who know precisely what is wrong will not love sufficiently to tackle the problem.

"I was afraid I would hurt their future," is one lame excuse. But that is exactly what happens.

Recall the words of our Lord to Peter when he veered off course; it seems a harsh slash to the disciple who had a short t…