Have you ever noticed that most of us fit into one of four styles of behavior? That's what some psychologists tell us ” four distinct styles of behavior. Some of us are dominant. Dominant folks like to be in control. Nobody has to ask dominant people what they think. They are blunt, direct ” fast to make judgements and ready to take action.

Then there are those for whom life is a party. These are "people" people. They like to talk. They are very animated. They like meeting new friends. Their nature is optimistic. They are fun to be around.

Then there are folks who are marked by their steadiness. They like situations that are dependable, predictable. They're not the rah-rah type. They will never be the life of the party, but they're good listeners. They make others feel comfortable.

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