It is hard to know what more can be said about marriage. Weddings are stressors. The planning, the showers, the many opinions, the money, the lists, the social pressures ... who can survive a wedding? The summer before my teenage bride and I were wed in our September nuptials, we worked as lifeguards at a local swimming pool, making buckets of money. We were between our sophomore and junior years in college and had all the worldly possessions that one would expect from two who had partially furnished two dorm rooms. The other lifeguards at the pool threw a nice poolside picnic/party/shower for us at the end of the swimming season and the pool owner kicked in for the gift. We had great fun, including several gag gifts and my driving a tricycle (complete with tin cans attached and a "Just Ma…