In Steven Covey's best seller "The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People," he talks about losing site of our main goals in life. In no other place are the consequences more destructive than in our families: Covey writes:

"I value my children. I love them, I want to help them. I value my role as their father. But I don't always see those values. I get caught up in the "thick of thin things."  What matters most gets buri…