One of the several things we all have in common is the sheer enjoyment of receiving gifts. While we may not always say so, our feelings are at least slightly wounded if our birthday is forgotten. Christmas is not memorable if, because of economic conditions, or because we were extravagant with gifts for others, our gifts are fewer in number. I’ve also observed that as many of us add years to our lives, the gifts we do receive are more predictable and much more practical.

We like receiving gifts! Now gifts are especially fun if they come at unexpected times, on days not generally associated with gift-giving. When gifts come from out of nowhere, from persons we least expect to honor us in such a way, we are overwhelmed with gratitude. Ordinary days are transformed by a simple gesture of som…