Country singer Gene Watson croons:
Slip into something soft,
And then come slip into my arms again.
Strip away your conscience and
Take off your wedding band.

Cheating has become America's national pastime. Statistically, 65 percent of men have affairs by age forty. For women, it's 35 percent. Talking with a pastor who had demitted the ministry due to sexual misconduct, he confided, "I never thought it could happen to me. But it did. For fifteen minutes of rolling in the sheets I sacrificed everything precious in my life -- wife, children, reputation, ministry, even my health." Another friend confided to me after adultery, "It just happened! It just happened!" I said, "No, it didn't just happen. You let it happen!" For in every affair there is a choice, steps taken, road blocks crashed, r…