Since this is Mother's Day, I want to ask the men in the congregation a provocative question. How do you get along with your motherinlaw? Think about that one for a moment. How do you get along with your motherinlaw? If we lived in Goradze, Yugoslavia, the question would not be frivolous. In Goradze, when a marriage announcement is made, they have a strange custom. The bridetobe's neighbors grab the groomtobe and drag him outside. There they tie him to a stake near a bonfire and fan the flames toward him. To save him from becoming barbecued, the bridetobe's mother has to provide food and drink for everybody. After the feast is spread, the funloving neighbors cut the guy loose. That is assuming the prospective motherinlawtobe is in favor of the union. (1) Those who are considering marriage …