If you have ever gone for a job interview, one of the questions that you will be asked is something like this: "Tell me what you have done in the past that would qualify you for this job?" Or, they may ask you something like this: "What character qualities do you have that would make me want to hire you?"

But if you will think back to any job interview you have ever had you were never asked this question: "Why do you do what you do?" When people try to size us up and find out what kind of persons we are, they go to our methods, but never to our motives.

I heard about a young lady who wrote this sweet note to her ex-fiance, whose heart she had broken a year before. It said:

Dear John,

I have been unable to sleep since we broke off our engagement. It has shattered me. I just cannot live …