Rev. James W . Moore tells a story about his six-year-old granddaughter Sarah who was visiting some friends of the family. He says: These friends are a wonderful couple who have been happily married for over 40 years. They have just moved into their dream retirement home. They love each other very much, but on this particular day when Sarah was there for her visit with our friends, they were still in the process of moving and arranging furniture.

They were trying to move a large chair through a narrow doorway… and sometimes when a husband and wife try to move a large chair through a narrow doorway, they (how shall I put this?), well… they get a little frustrated and they say things to each other in a different sounding tone of voice than they normally use, things like…

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