If there is one area in my life where I see so many failures and feel so many frustrations it is in my dual role as a husband and as a father. I see so many expectations that Teresa has for me and the boys have for me and that my churches have had for me and I have even had for myself that I didn't always meet. Quite frankly, for good reason, because I couldn't meet all of their expectations and the truth is - neither can you.

Men, many of you can too closely relate to the man in that video. Most of us at one time or another, maybe even now, feel like you are working so hard, pouring your life into your career in pursuit of the American Dream, but still everything around you that matters is being washed away like a sand castle? Wives, do you feel as if your castle feels like a prison wher…