In the musical Fiddler on the Roof, Tevye is the Jewish father of five girls living in a Russian village who finds himself going through a period that is continually challenging his traditions. First, his oldest daughter, Tzeitel does not want to accept the man picked for her by the village matchmaker. But Tevye has already struck up a deal with this man to marry his daughter. And so Tevye goes through a mental wrestling match with himself that goes something like this: "On the one hand ... I'm the papa, and I'm supposed to decide on the daughter's husband. But on the other hand ... she doesn't love the man that I've arranged for her to marry." So on and on he goes, with "on the one hand this" and "on the other hand that" until he comes to a conclusion that "they love each other." Ultimate…