... to cost the other fellow! The fire he'd kindled for his enemy was going to burn him more than the other. Dear people, when you're playing with unforgiveness, with grudges and hatred, you're playing with dynamite. You're playing with fire. Julie Nixon Eisenhower says, "One of the most deadly things you can do to yourself, is to be unforgiving." It's true. The text says so. It says unforgiveness ruins your relationship with God. It ruins your relationship with people. It imprisons you with torturers! It makes ...