... think straight about our family, we seem so messed up. Wonder if others are like us? "Julie and I tried to help Bernard and Jane. There’s sure a big gap between wanting to do something and doing it. Something gets into kids in their adolescence that makes them ... loneliness. Bruce Larson, in There’s a Lot More to Health Than Not Being Sick, draws information from Dr. James Lynch: Dr. Lynch’s studies show that twice as many white divorced males under age seventy who live alone die from heart disease, lung ...