Dictionary: Prayer

A distinction needs to be made between the various occurrences of the words “pray” and “prayer” in most translations of the Bible and the modern connotation of the same words. In the OT, the main Hebrew words translated as “to pray” and “prayer” (palal and tepillah) refer to the act of bringing a petition or request before God. They do not normally, if ever, refer to the other elements that we today think of as being included in the act of praying, such as praise or thanksgiving. The same is the case in the NT, where the main Greek words translated “to pray” and “prayer” (proseuchomai and proseuchē) also specifically denote making a petition or request to God. But other words and constructions in both Testaments are also translated “to pray” and “prayer,” and this article will deal with the larger concept, including praise, thanksgiving, petition, and confession, as opposed to the narrower meaning of the particular Hebrew and Greek terms (see also Praise; Thanksgiving; Worship).

Old Testament

In the OT there is no language or understanding comparable to modern ways of talking about prayer as conversational or dialogical. Prayer does not involve mutuality. Prayer is something that humans offer to God, and the situation is never reversed; God does not pray to humans. Understanding this preserves the proper distinction between the sovereign God and the praying subject. Therefore, prayers in the OT are reverential. Some OT prayers have extended introductions, such as that found in Neh. 1:5, that seem to pile up names for God. These should be seen as instances not of stiltedness or ostentation, but rather as setting up a kind of “buffer zone” in recognition of the distance between the Creator and the creature. In the NT, compare the same phenomenon in Eph. 1:17.

Many of the prayers in the OT are explicitly set in a covenantal context. God owes nothing to his creatures, but God has sworn to be faithful to those with whom he has entered into covenant. Thus, many OT prayers specifically appeal to the covenant as a motivation for both those praying and God’s answering (1 Kings 8:23–25; Neh. 1:5–11; 9:32; Pss. 25:10–11; 44:17–26; 74:20; 89:39–49). In postexilic books such as Ezra, Nehemiah, and Daniel, an important feature in the recorded prayers is the use of prior Scripture, praying God’s words (many times covenantal) back to him (in the NT, see Acts 4:24–30). Also, the closeness engendered by the covenant relationship between God and his people was unique in the ancient Near Eastern context. So Moses can marvel, “What other nation is so great as to have their gods near them the way the Lord our God is near us whenever we pray to him?” (Deut. 4:7).

Prayer must be made from a heart that is right toward God. There is no guarantee that God will hear every prayer (Ps. 66:18; Prov. 1:28; Isa. 1:15; 59:2). For the most part, the “rightness” that God requires in prayer is “a broken and contrite heart” (Ps. 51:17; cf. Isa. 66:2).

Although several passages talk about prayer in the context of sacrifice (e.g., Gen. 13:4), there is surprisingly little emphasis on prayer in the legal texts about sacrifice in the Pentateuch, no prescriptions for the kinds of prayer or the words that are to be said in connection with the sacrifices. Interestingly, however, in later, perhaps postexilic contexts, where there is no temple and therefore no sacrifice, we find texts such as Ps. 141:2, where the petitioner asks God to accept prayer as if it were an offering of incense and the evening sacrifice (cf. Prov. 15:8; in the NT, see Rev. 5:8).

A presupposition of prayer in the OT is that God hears prayer and may indeed answer and effect the change being requested. Prayer is not primarily about changing the psychological state or the heart of the one praying, but rather about God changing the circumstances of the one praying.

There is a striking honesty, some would even say brashness, evident in many OT prayers. Jeremiah laments that God has deceived both the people (Jer. 4:10) and Jeremiah himself (20:7) and complains about God’s justice (12:1–4). Job stands, as it were, in God’s face and demands that the Almighty answer his questions (Job 31:35–37). The psalmist accuses God of having broken his covenant promises (Ps. 89:39). While it is true that God does, to some extent, rebuke Jeremiah and Job (Jer. 12:5; Job 38–42), he does not ignore them or cast them aside. This would seem, ultimately, to encourage such honesty and boldness on the part of those who pray.

Literarily, accounts of prayers in narratives serve to provide characterizations of the ones praying. The recorded prayers of people such as Abraham, Moses, Hannah, Ezra, and Nehemiah demonstrate their true piety and humility before God. By contrast, the prayer of Jonah recorded in Jon. 2, in its narrative context, betrays a certain hypocrisy on the part of the reluctant prophet.

New Testament

The depiction of prayer in the NT is largely consistent with that of the OT, but there are important developments.

Jesus tells his disciples to address God as “Father” (Matt. 6:9; cf. Rom. 8:15; Gal. 4:6). Although recent scholarship has demonstrated that “Abba” is not the equivalent of our “daddy,” it expresses a certain intimacy that goes beyond what was prevalent at the time, but retains an element of reverence as well. God is not just “Father,” but “our Father in heaven” (Matt. 6:9). Even Jesus addresses God as “Holy Father” (John 17:11), “Righteous Father” (John 17:25), and “Father, Lord of heaven and earth” (Matt. 11:25). And Paul, as mentioned earlier, uses a buffer zone, rarely in his epistles using the word “Father” by itself, but instead referring to “God our Father” (e.g., Rom. 1:7) and frequently using the phrase “the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ” (Rom. 15:6; 2 Cor. 1:3; 11:31; Eph. 1:3; cf. Eph. 1:17; Col. 1:3). God is our Father, but still he is a Father before whom one reverently kneels (Eph. 3:14).

Prayer to God is now to be made in the name of Jesus (Matt. 18:19–20; John 14:13; 15:16; 16:23–26). While there is some debate as to the exact nuance of this idea, it seems clear that, at the very least, prayers in Jesus’ name need to be ones that Jesus would affirm and are in accordance with his holy character and expressed will. It is, in essence, saying to God that the prayer being offered is one that Jesus would approve.

Prayer can also be made to Jesus (John 14:14), and such devotion to him in the early church is evidence of his being regarded as deity. The instances of this in the NT are rare, however, and generally either exclamatory or rhetorical (Acts 7:59; 1 Cor. 16:22; Rev. 22:20). The norm would still seem to be that prayer is to be made to the Father, through Jesus’ name.

Unlike anything prior in the OT, Jesus tells his followers to pray for their enemies (Matt. 5:44). Jesus and his followers serve as examples (Luke 23:34; Acts 7:60).

The Holy Spirit plays a vital role in prayers. It is by him that we are able to call out, “Abba, Father” (Rom. 8:15; Gal. 4:6). The Spirit himself intercedes for us (Rom. 8:26). Our praying is to be done in the Spirit (Eph. 6:18; Jude 20; possibly 1 Cor. 14:15).

Jesus encourages fervent and even continual or repeated prayer (Luke 18:1–8), but not showy or repetitive prayer (Matt. 6:5–8).

Jesus becomes the model of prayer. He prays before important decisions (Luke 6:12–13) and in connection with significant crisis points (Matt. 14:23; 26:36–44; Luke 3:21; 9:29; John 12:27). He offers prayers that are not answered (Luke 22:41–44) and prayers that are (Heb. 5:7). Even as he tells his disciples to always pray and not give up (Luke 18:1 [which is also the meaning of the sometimes overly literalized “pray without ceasing” in 1 Thess. 5:17 NRSV]), so he himself wrestles in prayer (Luke 22:41–44; Heb. 5:7). He has prayed for his disciples (John 17; Luke 22:32), and even now, in heaven, he still intercedes for us (Heb. 7:25). Indeed, our intercession before God’s throne is valid because his is (Heb. 4:14–16).

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Charles R. Leary
... . But I can put myself close to others who are close to Jesus. My wife and I spent a weekend with friends recently. I laughed more during those two days than I’ve laughed in years. Being near those people calmed my anxieties. Teach your fears to say their prayers. O God, although we wonder why we are caught in the midst of so many disturbances, grant that we may never be afraid that they will sweep us from your presence. Be with us to steady us and enable us to take anything that comes to us quietly, with ...

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Mark Trotter
... them to pray, saying, "Our Father," so that they will learn that we are all children of God, all of us, in whom he is well pleased. Therefore, we are all brothers and sisters of the same parent, to whom we pray alike. We all pray the same prayer, intimately, personally, to the same God. Now one word about this parental image. It is tempting to think of it in terms of dependency, the way that small children are dependent upon their parents. But it is not like that. It is like the relationship of a parent ...

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Leonard Sweet
... others, to accept others, to forgive others, to love others, as you do to me. Or: Here are some suggested prayers from “Release International” for persecuted Christians everywhere: Sovereign God, we worship you and acknowledge that you know all of those ... the word of our testimony; we pray that we would not love our lives so much as to shrink from death (11). O Lord, hear our prayer. (1) Romans 5:3, Romans 8:17‑18, 1 Corinthians 12:26, 2 Corinthians 1:5‑11 (2) Hebrews 13:3, Colossians 4:18 (3) ...

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David E. Leininger
... , who art in heaven, May you be given that unique “reverence” that your name deserves." Sometime back, I saw a "Kudzu" cartoon, the ones that feature the Rev. Will B. Dunn. Will says, "Y'know, I hear a lot of complaints from our young folks that their prayers are not answered..." He continues: "Helpful hint: Don't lead off with `Yo, Lord!'"(1) Reverence, indeed! But we have a second problem. To echo Shakespeare, "What's in a name?" A lot! The name of God (or anyone, for that matter) is more than a means ...

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John Wayne Clarke
... you have a tendency to criticize others, no matter what the situation? Just in case there are some Pharisees here this morning, I want you to know that Pharisees, tax collectors, and the rest of us can be redeemed. The message for us, today, is that Jesus will hear your prayer and he will make your life worthy of his attention. Jesus can take you and mold you into the instrument of love you were meant to be. He has already set the example and has allowed us a peek at what it is we are to be. He has allowed ...

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Kenneth E. Crouch
... you are entering a union where you may give 70 percent or 90 percent or even 100 percent. Listen to these words of scripture: may they inspire you as you enter a new way of loving and living (usually parts of 1 Corinthians 13 follow). A wedding prayer Eternal God, who has willed the estate of marriage and who has taught us the way of love, we ask that you would bless this marriage. Give to __________ and __________ the desire and the ability to keep the vows that they have made. Where selfishness would ...

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Eric Ritz
... students back at headquarters. It was amazing, Dr. Campolo said, "Pastor Carlson took two Roman Catholic students and two Pentecostal students along with him to this woman''s apartment. Pastor Carlson learned from the two Roman Catholic students that the Roman Catholic prayer book actually contained a service for demon possession. So Pastor Carlson decided if he was going to meet Satan head to head, he must be properly attired. So he put on his black suit, cleric collar, preaching robe and stole and off ...

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King Duncan
Not everybody who takes up a life of crime is all that smart. Sometimes movies or television glorify criminals. They make them appear sophisticated, even cool. Most criminals do not fall in that category. Like the guy who walked into a little corner store in England with a shotgun and demanded all the cash from the cash drawer. After the cashier put the cash in a bag, the robber saw a bottle of scotch that he wanted behind the counter on the shelf. He told the cashier to put it in the bag as well, but the ...

Matthew 6:5-15, Matthew 6:16-18
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Lori Wagner
... their eyes.” Proclaimed God through Ezekiel. (Ezekiel 36:23) “I am the Lord; that is my name! I will not yield my glory to another or my praise to idols.” (Isaiah 42:8) When you sanctify God, when God is hallowed in your eyes and in your heart, your prayers will always be personal. And may your Kingdom be blessed: God is not only father but king. Today, we don’t live in a monarchy. We live in a republic here in the US. But a monarchy is upheld by a covenant. The kingdom to which you belong has the ...

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James McCormick
... all of the events of daily life. But I am convinced that unless we make time for God in a regular, disciplined life of prayer, we will not develop the sensitivity necessary to see Him and to acknowledge Him in all these other ways. In a previous sermon, I ... feel like it to pray. No, we pray daily as a matter of faith, as a matter of trust, believing that God will meet us in prayer and do something good for us. We trust that and we act on that, even at those times when we do not have religious goose bumps, ...

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Leonard Sweet
... of them again and again because familiarity breeds contempt and indifference. We are no different from the student who related to the professor, "I don't know why Shakespeare rates so high. All he did was string a lot of well known quotations together." First, we think of prayer as a technique when it is really a grace. We want to put our best foot forward when we come into God's presence - we don't want to be petty, silly, selfish and bad. So we wait until we feel stronger, more good, more unselfish. Or ...

Matthew 6:5-15
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James Merritt
... daily bread." (v.11) Now bread in Jesus' day represented survival. It represented needs. You had to have bread in order to survive. So we are to go to God with all of our needs. Now I emphasize the word needs. Where many people get off track with prayer is this: They think prayer is to get what they want, when actually it is to get what they need. Again, James 4:3 says, "You ask and do not receive, because you ask amiss that you may spend it on your pleasures." Jesus said we are to ask for bread, not apple ...

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Richard Patt
... a human father doesn't usually treat his children cruelly. If that's true, think of how much more the heavenly Father desires to bless us all. In other words, Jesus wants us to be convinced that God is unquestionably on our side. From the beginning of our prayer, God is ready to listen for the sake of bringing us the best possible blessing. What a promise! Even before we get set to pray, haven't you and I previously experienced God's good intentions toward us? Look at the marvelous world God has given us by ...

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Frank Lyman
... for healing for those in his audience. Among those he prayed over was a man with cancer. A few days later, this man's wife called Tony. She wanted him to know that her husband had died. Tony was discouraged by the news. But the wife added that Tony's prayers were not in vain. For the last few years, her husband had been bitter over his diagnosis. But after Tony prayed with him, the man found a measure of peace. His last few days of life were the happiest he had ever spent. "Tony," she said, "he wasn't cured ...

Luke 11:1-13
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Leonard Sweet
... why don't we pray? The greatest longing in the heart of God is to talk to his children. Then why don't we pray? Nothing is impossible to those who pray. So why don't we pray? No person ever fainted or faltered who gave himself or herself to prayer. Then why don't we pray? Every sin is forgiven, every stain is washed clean, all guilt diminished to those who pray. Then why don't we pray? Hell moves farther away, Satan flees from the one who prays. Then why don't we pray? Anointing will come, mountains will ...

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Maxie Dunnam
... tickle Jeri’s intellectual fancy. Jeri was involved with Kay and with God. And because of her praying, she could no longer either be separated from Kay or separated from God. And I never will forget the morning when Jeri, her face wet with tears, came from her time of prayer with this word, “I don’t understand, I will never understand it. I don’t know what God is doing or what he can do, but I do know that he must be doing at least what I’m doing today. Hurting and crying for little Kay.” What a ...

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Stephen M. Crotts
... of offering me that job long before I had decided to pray. We began to doubt. Perhaps this new financial help was not an answer to prayer after all. Maybe it was all just a coincidence. But then it hit me. I remembered a promise of God from Isaiah 65:24. There the ... to reveal to you his mind. Say, "Lord, here is a need. Teach me your mind. Teach me how to pray about this." Do you see how prayer is not getting God to see it your way, but getting you to see it God's way? Let's suppose that you are in a rowboat ...

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Will Willimon
... When someone says, “I don’t know how to pray. I don’t know what to say,” we say, “Come to church. Pray for your sin, intercede for the needs of others, given thanks; you’ll get the hang of it.” Yet what do people learn in this “school for prayer,”? I had to ask myself that question a few years ago when a man in my church told me that he needed to talk about a terrible problem in his life. “My supervisor is making my life miserable,” he said. “At work he is on my back from the moment ...

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James McCormick
... is often like that, isn’t it? We want something so badly we can taste it. We dream about it, we pray for it, we work to get it, but it doesn’t come. We all know the disappointment of that, don’t we? The disappointment of dreams unfulfilled…of prayers unanswered. Perhaps we hoped for a promotion and it was given to someone else. We wanted to pass a test and we failed. We expected a happy marriage and it ended in divorce. We asked for health and we became ill. We prayed for a loved one to recover from ...

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James Merritt
... taught them was to pray to "Our Father in heaven." Jesus said the relationship of a child to a father is the basis of all true prayer. There are three young men in my life named James, Jonathan, and Joshua, who know if they have a true need they can come to ... That is what God does. We always get the best when we leave the choice to Him. But we also know that God will reward our prayers. "We know that we have the petitions that we have asked of Him." When you are right with God, you have prayed in faith, you ...

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Thomas Long
... loud voice), "Father, I thank you for having heard me." Then, he adds under his breath, "I knew that you always hear me, but I have said this for the sake of the crowd standing here, so that they may believe that you sent me" (John 11:41-42). Prayer words spoken "for the sake of the crowd"? This is a clear-cut case of praying to the congregation. But before we pull Jesus over and ticket him for a liturgical infraction, we need to make two key observations. First, when Jesus prays to the congregation, he is ...

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Louis H. Valbracht
... in the Rose Bowl. We don’t have a right to pray for such things in the Name of Christ. The answer to some of our prayers would require a world of whimsey and caprice, instead of a world of law and order expressed in the love of God. Well, what do we ... , and I am most ready to say that this is probably true." You see, when God becomes the third party in our disputes in prayer, then strangely enough, it’s never necessary to decide who is right or wrong. Let God in the middle of your argument, and then see ...

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David O. Bales
... more than a person, but God is at least a person. Therefore, I resist comparing God with television waves and saying that prayer is simply tuning in to what’s already here; besides, most people have cable now. What does that do to the old ... Spirit of Jesus now risen from the dead and alive in you. Pray, watch, and wait for God to answer your prayer in Jesus’ name. Maybe Jesus will answer your prayer by your living more of his life right here, right now. He promises, “I will do whatever you ask in my ...

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Ron Lavin
... didn't pronounce it all. Compare that with the way people use God's name in vain today! The first petition in the Lord's Prayer is a helpful corrective for the disrespect shown to God in our time. Your Kingdom Come The kingdom of God is God's reign over ... , even when the Ruler is our Abba who seeks to rule us only because he knows what is good for us better than we do. The prayer petition, "Your will be done on earth as in heaven,"2 drives home the point that the issue of the control button is a matter of ...

1 Chronicles 7:1-5
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Maxie Dunnam
... from the New Testament is Jesus' great metaphor of the vine and the branches in the 15th Chapter of John. In that metaphor he tells us who he is in relation to God and who we are in relation to Him, but He also gives us the key to effective prayer. "If you abide in me, and my words abide in you, those are the conditions. If we meet those conditions, then says Jesus, you can ask what you will and it will be so. There is also the witness from history. John R. Mott, the great missionary evangelist who really ...

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